First of all I think I’m asexual but I can still find people attractive just not in that way. When I met my partner I felt nothing till we talked for several weeks.
When I dated before the same thing happened but the instant I realized he was cheating the attraction just faded… I feel more attracted to a personality than a face it’s weird.
I think I understand and I do feel similarly. I am more attracted to the personality. Meds have really taken my sex drive so that might have something to do with it, I’m not sure. But I’ve always been more attracted to the personality to be honest.
To be honest, for me if clothes off I am on, but these days story plays a crucial role.
I think I am getting older daily.
I still think I am immortal and spend time like there is always another day.