After illness? I have not been attracted to anyone in real life for such a long time, I do meet lots of guys I guess. I mean I am not even ‘secretly’ attracted.
I am in a relationship of course but it seems I am no longer interested in love and sex.
There is this guy I talk to sometimes, I was obsessed with him 2 years ago, now I have no feelings I guess. When I liked this guy, I had not seen his picture.
How does your attraction happen? Based on looks or familiarity?
Mine happens with familiarity, but the APs have really killed my love life.
That’s a good question. I think the internet has messed things up in a way. Humans were meant to see people in real life and then become attracted to each other over time.
Occasionally. There was the woman working at the pharmacy. It was a physical attraction for sure.
I mean I see good looking women all the time and I would like to sleep with them. It’s just natural. When I see good looking women or women with good physical assets, I always vaguely think about sex. Unfortunately, it’s usually one-sided, lol. But with the woman at the pharmacy it was better because I felt attracted to her physically AND personally; not just as an anonymous woman but a someone who I would like to get to know. Unfortunately, I moved away and I never go there anymore. But yeah, occasionally I get the feelings for women.
i havent noticed the illnesses i have nor the medication im on as having any impact on my sex drive or attraction to people
I like people without seeing their picture. I am not sure I want to date someone my age though because they seem to just want whatever I have.
What do you mean by that? To want whatever you have?
I mean they want whatever I have. If I have drugs, money, ect. they want that. If I have emotional support for them, they want that. And ONLY they can have it because they are jealous and try to treat me like a toy or object.
But it is also a great opportunity to meet lots of different people. But yeah like the swiping in the dating app is weird 
It is really weird to judge someone out of a picture like that. I mean when I met my boyfriend I had no clue we’ll end up together.
I think you are hanging around very weird people. Have you met someone you like and she likes you back? Like your personality ?
Nope. Never. If I like someone it’s either they don’t like me back or if someone likes me I don’t like them back.
I actually don’t hang around people because of things like I mentioned before. The last time it happened it left a very deep pain…
I’m just as attracted to everyone as I always was.
Its a problem in my life.
Still have some attraction to women. Don’t pursue relationships because I have nothing to offer, and have a feeling it wouldn’t go well if I tried. I’m drifting really as far as relationships go, if something happens then okay, but I’m not going to be proactive.
I never was attracted to people. But I feel like my ability to get close to people and form any kind of relationships has been hampered. But idk if that’s from the sza or the ptsd?
The year and a half before I was medicated I had no interest in the opposite sex, it was pretty much buried by my negative symptoms. After three years of high ap dosage I was starting to feel better, and as the dosage came down at that point my libido kicked back in with a vengeance for a couple of months.
TMI, I didn’t manage to capitalise on it. 
I can find a man good looking with out the connection or attraction that connect.
I have only had eye contact connection attraction a couple or few times in my life.
Maybe it is because I do not usually feel connection when I look in peoples eyes.
Last time A man and my eyes connected in deep attraction I felt we had same sense of humour and our eyes met and I looked away eventually.
Because I was in a relationship with a stunning sexy kind great man but his eyes n my eyes never connected that way.
Maybe my eyes are stairy or something.
I just do not usually connect with people but have connected a couple or few times in my life with eyes connecting.
I never had a boyfriend who connected with my eyes.
Those men and I never even spoke I think just looked into each other’s eyes.
I’m with @GoldenRex on this one. I’m attracted to people a lot.
And not just based on looks, I get attracted to personality as well.
And it is a problem. But it also improves my mood. So I just let it be.
I’m attracted to looks but I only really like like after familiarity. I don’t persue relationships as I’m married and I’m just attracted to my wife, no one else catches my attention but I do look at girls from time to time but I’m a guy, that’s normal. With my wife I liked her by the looks and started to make awkward moves that caught her attention like constantly getting caught staring at her at a thanksgiving work party that someone invited her to. Anyways I was so weird she thought I was gay at first lol. But the next time I saw her again by chance I got her number and started dating on New Years at a get together with my friends. Ever since then we’ve been together mostly happily, had our problems but we hammered it out!
I am happy for you. Your story is cute. I am young and in a mediocre relationship so I wonder if I am missing out on a lot of fun
Attracted meaning, wanting to date, maybe a little but can usually talk myself out of it. Rare to find someone in my age group that is out looking. If they are I never go anywhere they are hanging out.