No second chances

Some people are brutally dishonest. I don’t know my worth and i give them discounts. Why do i do that? Sorry i want to be positive but i’m not visiting my psychologist and i need to talk

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There are people out there who mistake kindness for weakness, and unfortunately will take advantage of others. That says a lot about them, not you. Don’t stop being a decent human being :purple_heart:

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Thank you. But I think i have to close some doors. My heart is too broken, in too many pieces. I fixed it but i used a bad glue :sweat_smile: i need someone to give a better one

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Nothing wrong with closing a few doors :slightly_smiling_face: Best of luck in finding someone worthy of giving your heart to :purple_heart:

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I think everyone with schizophrenia who has a therapist should talk to their therapist about “assertiveness”.

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Imagine your boyfriend that left you and are hanging out with your sister. Imagine that the sister is a bad sister for many years already. It’s revolting

Thank you. You’re very sweet. Thank you a lot.

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I never call people out when I know they’re lying. It’s something to work on, or maybe I learn about them because they think I’m stupid and then I use that sht against them when it suits me. You can see these traits about you as good or bad. Doesn’t really matter. I tell myself I have power over them, but feel bad that I’m really no better than them. But there is no such thing as objective, so I can make the reality of things whatever I want. So ask yourself, why do you think this is a weakness? What do you need to change to make it your strength?

My silence would be a strength.
I “felt” the truth before i knew it. But i couldn’t stop myself until i discover the truth. I should be silent and accepeted and moved on. If it didn’t feel right i should trust my feelings. Sorry for my bad english

In CBT they say that the only control we have is over ourselves and our actions, not external situations and other people. I think your silence is a definite character strength, and sometimes the best response is to continue doing you regardless of the circumstance, as difficult as it may be at times.

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Sounds right. Thank you again.

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