Does the expectation make you lose interest in it ?
Will one lose interest?
I’m not sure I follow. What are you asking?
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Its like when people talk about a movie and there is hype about the movie it great and must watch.
Once we go to the movie with expectations and we are disappointed. How expectations was not met as expected.
Does such thing happen is sex when for almost staying virgin for entire life and the expectation is not met
Depends on the person. Every experience is different. I think it’s important to lose your virginity in a way that won’t be traumatic or leave you regretting it if you can help it.
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Bleh I was in a rush to lose mine as a teen
And I did, but now that I am older I wish I obstaned until a potential wife comes along
Sex is only a bragging right in high school anyway
Save your virginity until it’s special
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Twenty years was long enough. I do relate to what you’re saying. The sex act itself isn’t as great as the build up and anticipation. For me it was just getting it over with so I wasn’t labeled a virgin anymore. I wish I did it sooner, because @Cloudd3ad is right, when you’re young you enjoy a certain positive status if you lose your virginity early.
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Note this is especially true for men. Not so much for women and other genders. We often get labeled as “promiscuous” if we lose our virginity “too early”. It’s all a bunch of bs imo. You should be able to lose it whenever is comfortable to you so long as you’re old enough to consent.
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I really think that it’s okay if sex is disappointing in the beginning. You can learn and improve it with your partner. Sex therapists are very helpful, too. You can become quite good at it over the years if you try.
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I lost my virginity at 15.
I’m glad I did, I learned alot at a young age.
Some people go through life w.o ever having a chance to have intercourse.
It’s okay. Times are changing.
You’re not missing out on much just so you know, maybe personal intimacy.
Stay strong !
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Better to have loved and lost then to never have loved at all
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There was complications in the relationship so I was not able to.
By the way I can only say so much about it.
I think I am not into this sex thing.
Because without it feels like heaven on earth.
I am falling in love with everything and every moment.
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Are you maybe asexual? Plenty of people are.
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I do have the feeling in my mind. But don’t want to in real.
Its like I used mass every single day.
May be maturity took over.
Right now I am listening to bad bunny 
I’m asexual and never had or wanted sex. I’m 38 and still a virgin and I regret nothing.
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I wanted to have sex, which would of been on the cards but sz crept in…
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I rushed too soon and its better to stay a virgin until the right time/person
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I kinda think that any time is the right time to lose your virginity. Like if you have an opportunity, go for it. I guess it’s different for different people but personally, when I lost my virginity I certainly wasn’t in love with the woman, I barely knew her. But it went OK and I don’t regret the experience, I just wish it had happened sooner.
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