Need help making life changes

I am currently very overweight with a terrible diet, no exercise routine to speak of, sub par hygiene practices and am terrible about keeping my apartment clean too. For obvious reasons I’d like to change this. I am excellent about creating plans to do so. I make plans that in my eyes are extremely doable and realistic, like take a 15-30 min walk at the end of the day, or brush my teeth every night, cook at least 3 times a week, etc.

But then when it comes to actually following through with those plans I never even start. I go to work, come back extremely drained and go into my same old pattern of ordering fast food and playing videogames until bedtime. Any and all motivation I had to change goes out the window because of how tired I am.

How do I get past this hump? I’ve honestly been looking for new jobs because I feel this one has had such a profoundly negative impact on my life. But being in the psych field any job I find is going to be a lot to handle really.

Sometimes it’s good to have an accountability partner.

I’m having a real hard time getting motivated to pack all my stuff for my move and have asked my husband to watch my progress and keep me accountable to what I said I was going to do that day.

Are you still dating that guy?

Can he help you with your plans?

Here is something I have been thinking about starting :

Set points in time where you might do something. No guarantee that you will (no failure if do not). Once the point in time is past, only thing to do is look forward to next chance.

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