I heard and believed the story that “waited for this moment” by phil collins was about him witnessing someone drowning at the hand of someone he knew but the killer didn’t know phil saw him drown him and then invited him to a front row seat to sing the song to the killer…hahahahahahaha…oh man, was I gullible.
When i was a kid i thought the world was black and white in old timey days and one day i asked my dad when the world became colorful. The truth that photography got more advanced didnt occur to 6 year old me
I recently learned that many people believe babies are unaffected by trauma because they do not remember it.
Then I read that babies are profoundly affected by trauma because they process it in their lower brain because their upper brain is not yet developed. This is what they call the “lizard brain” which I think is the brain stem and the cerebellum. It’s the foundation on which our cognitive and emotional development is built, the health of which determines the development of higher brain functions. This is why traumatized infants can later present with emotional problems and learning disabilities.
Finding out that so many people believe babies are immune to trauma was so disturbing that it stuck with me.
When I was a kid, I was told by another kid that if you eat watermelon seeds, a watermelon will grow inside your belly. I believed it for a few years, until I was old enough to realize that that is just nonsense.
My grandmother smoked 24/7 since she was 12y.o. She tried to make me smoke with her, she told me cigarettes make ppl tough, they will make you a tough strong man lol