Are in their mid 80s and the picture of health. What I want is to live another 10 years and die before they do. My youngest will be 25 years old by that time. And oldest will be 31. I think then my job will be done.
I’ve heard the pain of losing a son or daughter is really bad. For this reason, I don’t want to die before my parents. And also because I want to take care of them when they get older
3 Likes
Thankfully my parents would be well cared for by my siblings. As much as my family loves me I realize I’m a burden. The only thing I do well is raise my kidlets.
Oh trust me your kids will need you long after those ages!! Stick around as long as you can
5 Likes
Stick around is right @FatMama!
Try not to think of these morbid thoughts.
If things get out of hand then go to the ER.
You are valuable.
Your kids need you!
2 Likes
I’m not suicidal at all. I just don’t want to be here when I turn 60. Thank you for showing kindness
@FatMama…you need to seriously get your self admitted to a psych unit for some R&R…youre well liked here and respected on the forums…we wouldn’t want to lose you…im in a similar position, im middle aged and my parents are getting old…I want to be there for them…
2 Likes
Your kids need you. Especially when they have their own kids. There were so many questions I couldn’t ask my mother and I needed help
2 Likes
This topic was automatically closed 90 days after the last reply. New replies are no longer allowed.