I am still stranded in her hometown and country but I believe things will open up and expect to be back to my country next month.She’s getting angry and frustrated with me,she speaks loudly and criticise me whenever she can.I am bearing with it,to tell the truth I am cherishing this relationship and I understand now I don’t do anything and looking at my phone all day or play games.I do want to get back to work,it’s not my fault to stay stuck in her country and not doing anything.
She cleans our room everyday and prepare food for me,bring me outside to do exercise.I appreciate it,but she couldn’t control her frustration and anger towards me.I won’t leave her,but if she decide to break up with me once more,I will not be holding her back even if we are married…I did my best,so should she…Besides she doesn’t have to work also,just to serve me out.My family provide us the money,she should appreciate it.She doesn’t respect me as of now
On the other hand I didn’t respect her family too.My mental health has always been like this,bad,I avoid her family by staying in her room,I am wrong.If she couldn’t accept this,I can do nothing…the medicine doesn’t help either
You say she is upset with you for not doing anything, not interacting with her family, and maybe for treating her a little like a caretaker.
In a healthy relationship, one person shouldn’t have to be a caretaker for the other person.
Perhaps you need to pay more efforts into being independent and doing things yourself, and maybe help her out with some chores.
I know you have negatives, but lying in bed on your phone all day is a choice, and even though chores are boring and tedious, it gets easier with time as you get used to it.
Wow, you should keep her because a lot of women would not marry a schizophrenic. Luckily your family owns a small business to provide for the both of you.