Well as soon as my mother found out I’m pregnant she disowned me… and I asked my brother if he wanted to be in the kid’s life and it started an argument where he disowned me too… I have no one on my mom’s side now… great…
They’ll come around I’m sure.
I’m so sorry. That’s really hard. I have never been close to my mother because she’s pretty toxic, but even still when I was pregnant and after I had my daughter I had this weird need for her to acknowledge me and be in my life. I wanted her and she wasn’t there for me and it was really really hard. And that was even with her sort of talking to me once in a while. I can’t imagine how painful it must be to be locked out completely. I’m so sorry.
My mother disowned me twice now that’s all the chances she gets
Even if they do, do you want those kind of people in your childs life? To risk them disowning the child when they’re old enough to not really understand?
Even if they did understand, it doesn’t make it any less painful.