If I have a boyfriend in the future I would like him to maybe have sex with me but the problem is that guys don’t like condoms. And nor do girls so much (I mean me). And I don’t think the sex is worth it then, with condom.
But I also don’t like hormonal contraception.
So does this mean I can’t have penetrative sex?
I’m feeling annoyed…
What about the coil?
That scares me too much. Some metal device in my body releasing metal into my body. And there is a rare complication that the metal can poke into organs.
Probably best to just try condoms. I think it is just a loss you are going to take if there is no better options. Probably best just to pick which one is the smallest inconvenience.
The fact that sex is not as enjoyable. Just kind of ruins it.
And also the weird chemical lubricant on them. That is going into my internal body.
Maybe with the right person this is something I can overcome but idk. Doesn’t feel like that atm.
I think I am the opposite with my idea on condoms, I am way too worried about stds and pregnancy to be bothered about them ruining it a bit.
That’s a really good attitude.
For me right now sex feels like all or nothing, either enjoy it to the full or just don’t have it
Lol
So that is why I can’t be asked with condom sex
Which might then mean no sex at all.
I asked here if penetration is pleasurable. For me is not and some girls feel the same. How about you?
Condom prevent deseases. It is very important.
I kind of like it yes especially if I am naturally wet down there. Instead of lubricant.
But I have never reached orgasm from it
Condoms suck lol.
But I understand their purpose yes.
Greenmind do you enjoy it at all? Penetration.
For me it depends on my state of mind and the guy I’m with and the state of the relationship
Yeah, you’re tottally right. I feel and think the same way. Exactly the same.
But my fear of pregnancy or STD’s is huge.
Yes especially hiv. Freaks me out
Thankyou for reminding me Greenmind. I think u are right. Its very important to be firm about condoms. It can be tempting to just not use it ‘just this time’ and just those times…
Thx I really appreciate that
There’s contraceptive options for women other than pills.
I’ve only come across hormonal and the coil. I don’t like those options
Other than that its 1+1=2, no other answer. You will get pregnant and you might get STDs. Also I don’t know what type of guy will have unprotected sex on the first sex. It took me 2 years to accept my partner’s request to have unprotected sex, she wanted kids. I made her take contraceptive pills, she didn’t want them at first. I told her I don’t want kids at 20 y.o.
I’m so scared of hep and hiv
They are debilitating to me
I wasn’t on Abilify, I was impulsive and taking big risks, I did STDs tests after I stopped Abilify, negative. Now I am not impulsive and hypersexual anymore on Risperdal.
With all my gfs we never used condom, I just pulled off when I was about to ejaculate.