would you be surprised to know that my biggest bully of all through out my adult life was a small slight fella of 5 foot 6 , he bullied me in a nasty sneery way from about 15 to 25…what is surprising is im 6 foot 3 and of a big broad build…but i was not able to stand up to him or confront him. Iwas afraid of him and he was only 5 foot 6
People like that ruined my life when I was growing up. Especially between high school and to about 18/19
I was grateful for my 12 month rehabilitation order as my key worker helped me through psychosis aftermath and got me to see who these nasty people really were
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5 foot 6 and totally insecure
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strangely my bully was super confident…he was a very small slight build, narrow shoulders guy but he was very confident…he thought himself as intelligent…he bullied me (my voices tell me) as he was jealous of the fact that I was in the A class and he was in the B class…he didnt like the thought that i may have been better than him at something…he bullied me for lots of things, he thought i was a loser…he sneered that i was no good at sport, he sneered whenever i said something naive…he was nasty, and strangely im 6 foot 3 big build but still im kinda nervous around him and im 44 now…whenever i see him in my neighbourhood i look away
my childhood bully was also a small guy. tried to fight me, my first day of public school in the 3rd grade. after that he was always trying to start stuff on the playground but i backed down. this continued for 4 years, until we we’re separated in the 7th grade for academic reasons.
i still have this fear of him for some reason. i saw him in town a few years ago and crossed the street.
now he is still lawless and into drugs, always getting arrested. i try not to think about what he might do to me if he was motivated. i just hope he forgets about me. now that i’ve moved to another town, there is not much to fear. im a small guy myself, but a good 5 inches taller than him.
he was always getting into fights at school. i think the situation kinda worked itself out as i avoided him, and with his natural inclination to be combative, he developed other rivals.
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You should really look up the psychology of someone that bullies people. I’m not so concerned as to what it says about you. But I’m concerned about what it says about them. You may not of thought so but bullies are often very insecure.
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yeah ive heard bullies are insecure but i find it tough to understand this guy…i never realy knew him well…he was nasty and my voices tell me he bullied as he was jealous and also because he wanted to feel “big”, laughing at others and sneering…i never really ever had a conversation with him but i hated him for nearly over a decade…he screwed me over big time…i became so obsessed and hated him that i started to become psychotic.
i understand what you say that he is insecure…i hear that said lots about bullies but as i said i hardly knew the guy, but only hated him
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I’ve had all different kinds of bullies bully me.
Some were female.
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Those women liked something about you wave.
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I remember when I was in middle school, one of the neighbor girls was a couple years older than me and in high school and was a bully. One time she took my bicycle and threw it off a hillside. She would also say mean things to me and my friends.
Some years later I saw her at the grocery store (she was a checker) and she seemed to have become a very pleasant woman. I don’t think that she recognized me.
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Thats good she grew up. Some bullying is more concerning though. Done by people who are even older than that girl.
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