@anon8411913 Is it possible that your brother might be jealous of your success at university? Maybe he’s trying to sabotage your plans to get your masters degree?
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Does he want priveladge of being in your mom’s favor.
Does she support him financially emotionally.
He must be getting something out of this.
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The best family relationship is one that is distant.
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@bittercat I am glad yesterday I was talking very honestly with my parents and they said they don’t believe in any of my brother’s words. They said they understand he is lying, and probably just tries to create more conflicts in family and tries put me down,
@Moonbeam it’s truly possible… sounds bad, but every time I had an achievement in my life or smth, he was either silently jealous or very openly jealous, like yesterday.
@Kxev my mom still helps him financially. When he is at home - he is living from my parents money…
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Darn I’m sorry to hear you’re going through all this. It must be a drag having to live with your brother.
With this being only the internet and not knowing your brother I can’t tell if it’s the drugs talking in him or if he’s a genuine sociopath, or some other anti-social personality disorder.
Staying away from weed is a smart choice though. Modern day strands are super high in THC levels and can even be pretty trippy for people who are used to smoking it.
Take care.
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Honestly, when I was reading about sociopathy long time ago, I had this ‘click’ moment… ‘OMG IT’S MY BROTHER’ but it definitely could be just drugs… it’s hard to differentiate it now
Not smoking weed no more. I really want a normal life. I also want that masters degree!!
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Yes ma’am! Go get that degree. 
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Hahaaa 
hugs @Montezuma
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Hugs! 
It’s a little after 1am where I’m at in the states. I drank a lot of coffee today. 
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It’s 9:35 morning here!!
I just drank two cups of coffee haha:))
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Sometimes you have to make the tough decisions, sounds like what you’re doing.
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Practice forgiveness, tell yourself I forgive myself for any wrong doing.
Draw a picture or write a story in a world where you are safe, surrounded by love and good and kind people
Imagine you are in bubble protected by it from any negative intentions or influence, choose a colour or symbol which gives you healthy and safe future ,
Bring your vision to existence
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This is a very powerful affirmation from luise hay.
I say out to all the negative thoughts that comes to my mind. No person place or thing has any power over me. I create my own reality and everyone in it
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My brother is toxic also @anon8411913
I’ve decided to keep my interactions with him to a minimum but it’s more difficult for you since you live with him.
I don’t live with him
I’ve blocked him on Facebook and Messenger and I did block him for a while in my phone but I’ve decided against it since he is one of my emergency contacts
But I know what you are going through
It isn’t easy
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I can relate to the part where brother not helping. Maybe your brother is more toxic in terms of way he is behaving. For me he is not even talking, and assuming I am a bad person because of the mental breakdowns often. Nobody understood the underlying issues. It expanded to the core that everyone identified me as very unstable and useless.
Whatever I try to communicate it seems no point as they dont trust my words. So probably work on something that gives peace and maybe some solace and happiness so not mind their prejudice or harsh treament. Be strong you can move on and do good in life.
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