Hello I was talking to this person online because we have a lot of things in common mainly being gay and our fetish. He is wanting to meet tonight at my house, he’s lives close. He sounded okay ay first but one text was very off-putting also he won’t tell me too much information about himself which I thought was weird. That last text message was weird so I told hime I was going to bed. Did I do the right thing?
If he’s unwilling to tell you anything about himself but you’re opening yourself up to meeting him at a place, that’s a red flag. You did the right thing in cutting off the communication, but I’d advise you not to meet him unless you bring another person you trust.
If you’re having warning bells like this, and you have a bad feeling, it’s usually right! It’s your intuition kicking in, don’t meet this person!
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Sounds like he’s just into the sex stuff.
If that’s cool with you,
Go for it, but be safe.
If not, lose his contact info.
Follow your instincts. If your instincts say don’t trust him, stay away from him.
thinking about it there is lots of little weird things. I was selling some adult diapers on a local selling sit. I like diapers.( I know it weird but its very common, we are called diaper lovers) I have sold him some diapers before which I did not want (last month) so he knows where I live. He said he was going to swop me a packet of his for a packet of mine. He posted a picture of the trunk with the diapers in. He then told me he has to go into his attic so he can get them but because they are in his attic they are to far so he’s going to bring me a couple… Who has a truck in the attic full of diapers ready to take a picture on there phone? He’s lying to me.
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Whatever floats your boat mate! But honestly, whatever you choose to do, please stay safe
this is the message he sent me
‘‘Sometimes listen ive had to grab you a pack of the green molicares and a hand ful of the pinks as full packs are in the loft but il get u somemore another time yeah’’
I was not not listening to him, we was not sending that many messages to get to this point. Do you think that sound aggressive?
If someone sends off warning bells, it is usually a good idea to listen. That is your intuition picking up on things your conscious mind isn’t aware of. You have those intuitions to protect yourself. Every time I’ve ignored warning bells, I’ve gone on to regret it.
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Trust your instincts. If it doesn’t feel right, don’t do it.
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I would be very careful
Get to know other people and take time to chat and then meet up in a. Public place
Diapers? !!!
There is a ghost on this forum
Something funny is going on
What do you mean? @shellys12
I read a message and it said "diapers? That’s weird dude " when I looked again the message was gone
It happens when people write a comment and then choose to edit it afterwards for whatever reason.
You can only edit a comment a certain amount of time after you posted it though.
Ok thanks for that info