I heard it can be bad as well but it was more to do with watching porn instead of using the imagination, its better without porn i heard.
I’ve broken my porn addiction.
Might have to do with me getting older, though.
Not actually old yet, just fed up with the rubbing habit.
I stopped when I started Zyprexa. It sucks, but is also a positive thing. I have more free time to work on my course lol.
Meh. It’s only religion that made people feel guilty about masturbating. It’s a normal human behavior in mammals. Apes and monkeys do it.
And as an aside, it’s good for males and their prostate glad.
Everyone does it. But no one admits to it.
I’m in a several months remission from lust/masturbation. I had one last year too, but I relapsed. Luckily, I got over it in short order.
It’s for religious reasons why, but other than that, I feel so much better than just being guilt ridden for being sinful; I also have noticed more focus, and more power of my mind I feel is activated, allowing me to get past this last psychotic episode.
All your going to get is sexual tension. Your going against your body’s needs, over a religious book.
Wrong. 7474747 7473
Let’s just agree to disagree. I respect you, @Naarai, so I won’t argue, plus nothing good will come from arguing principles you live by.
I’m fine with people doing it, I just don’t do it personally.
Fair enough. I respect your opinions. It’s just that when I have been abstaining, it just makes me more focused on sex, cos I have had no release.
I suppose I’ve got a bit of a personal issue with religion dictating my life but yeah, should not have transferred them onto you.
Cool beans. I just really don’t know, why having the odd wank is such a big deal.
If masturbating is a sin, i’m 100% going to hell
It’s been drummed into us and our culture for hundreds of years that it’s a sin. Which personally is a load of bollocks. It’s purely a method of control. It’s purely natural behavior.
Your just setting yourself up to feel guilty.
Mate, I agree with you 100%. And like you said before, there’s health benefits to it. Lowers a mans risk of getting prostate cancer.
Its completely normal and healthy for both men and women to masturbate.
After singing in a cathedral as a boy, I can assure you, some of the deacons and priests are just as randy as the rest of us! Lol.
It comes from Victorian times over here, that having a bunk up was wrong. It’s a front, so they don’t diminish their air of “purity” lol
@Naarai - While I know some members on here who are religious who I still really like and enjoy talking to them, I never understood peoples interest in religion.
Waiting till marriage for sex? Jesus (who was a normal human being like anyone here on the forum) coming back from the dead? Masturbating a sin? Seriously?
Now I am no where close to a perfect person and I can be judgemental myself, religious people tend to be extremely judgemental. “Oh you don’t believe? You’re going to hell !!!” Seriously…? So because I don’t believe in a book full of made up stories, i’m going to spend eternity in hell? Get the F outta here…
Closing thread since it keeps meandering over to discussions of religion