My friend and I decided that since we are both now paranoid with delusions and (in my case anyway), hearing voices, anxious, and (in her case anyway) depressed and irritable, we are not going to get married after all. We obviously can’t handle the stress of it all. We decided that being in a romantic relationship was too much for us to handle and that it would be best to be friends. We still might go on a two day camping trip very soon though.
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That’s ok @SkinnyMe.
Maybe it’s for the best.
At least you are still friends.
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oh I am so sorry @SkinnyMe are you handling this o k? crying involved in this pain? I wish you happiness on your camping trip.
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A few tears on my part, yes, but not many, thankyou @jukebox . Yes, we are still friends.
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It remembers that I never more talked to my ex-girlfriend. I changed a lot after our break up and I wish us to be friends. Despite I’m not her boyfriend anymore, I like her ideas, vibe and energy.
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This is tough stuff, navigating a relationship. It puts stress on anyone, even the healthiest people. I like slow, gradual changes rather than sudden ones, personally. Just let this relationship unfold in its own time. Try being regular, committed friends for a while.
I’m sorry you’re hurting but glad you’re looking out for yourself. I hope everything works out for the best.
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I’m glad you decided to be good friends
I wish you the best 
A good marriage always starts with good friends.
Marriage can always be in your future.
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