I just want to say thank you to all the people on here who who supported me when I was splitting with my ex.
He came to see the children on Monday. I supervised and it went well. He was much better with them especially Qwertle.
He is coming again on Saturday with his dad to see them. I’m glad we are keeping it amicable and respectful and I hope that continues.
He has been trying to use the children as an excuse to FaceTime me. I have denied this. He wants to come back and his mother wants him to come back but that’s never going to happen.
Also I am looking better and feeling so well (aside from a cold) than I have in along time. My psriosis has cleared up. My skin looks healthier and my teeth are looking much better for cleaning them twice a day.
I was neglecting myself when I was with him. The constant subtle put downs didn’t help with my self esteem.
It’s nice to be in control of my finances now. I have spent money on my sons which he never allowed cause he wanted crap for himself.
I think he is actually a covert narcissist. He has many of the traits.
Anyway. I’m happy than I’ve been in a long time.
I’m glad you’re feeling and doing better. I hope he continues to be better with the kids and amicable with you.