Letting go of negative people

So I’ve had an interesting couple of days. I still had a pretty good relationship with my Ex. It’s just one of those things and I have this problem where I see the good in most folk. Anyways. She’s been having a hard time and last few months I’ve been sending a little money back to the states to help her out.

Like it wasn’t a big deal and I was glad to help out but the thing is that my Ex can be horribly insenstive and very narcissistic. Add to that a temper and it’s not too attractive and I just reached a point where I just can’t deal with her anymore. It’s happened before and I always have returned being nice and all but I just have come to the relisation that nothing is going to change.

Anyways. Came to a head last couple of days. Just got to the point where I just can’t deal with the negativity anymore. I’ve been beyond a good friend to her and I just realised that it’s a relationship I can’t win. It just wastes my time and my money. Oh well. It’s kinda a bad thing to do but I cut her off on my social media. I know she’s struggling with life but I live overseas and helped as much as I can but it’s a relationship that is one sided and it’s sucked me dry…Time to move on.

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Your a good guy @rogueone , sometimes its better to just move on. Energy better spent elsewhere

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Good for you @rogueone. One sided relationships get old. You don’t need to get sucked dry. I’m glad you’re moving on. That’s nice of you to have helped her by the way.

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Good for you! I’m glad you decided to move on.

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I have fallen into that exact same pit, and you do have to pull out at some point. Good on you

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