My dream job was to become a Dr and I had good grades until I got sz. Lots of my presz friends became Drs. 2 of them are neurosurgeons. I still have them on fb but I don’t talk to them anymore.
I just learned from my mother that my church friend became a neurosurgeon. She’s friend with his parents, sometimes his parents visit us. Good for him l, I was better than him in school before the sz. I am jealous or more likely he’s lucky to not have sz like me.
That was a saying I heard a lot from my dad. Life is unfair.
So ya just gotta make do
I believe in rebirth. Therefore, when I ask if life is fair, I want to look over about three thousand years of cause and effect.
this seems hard to believe.
neurosurgeons are rare.
but okay, I believe you, if you say so.
I had 900 fb friends before sz. I had lots of friends and connections. I am not forcing anyone to believe me, its online anyways. My best friend that left me bcz I stopped my meds and I insulted him is now a cardiologist.
I’ll keep you in my prayers bud, I don’t have a lot to say I can only try to productively talk about what I know of this illness.
I am friend with someone on fb who has 5000 friends on fb. I used to hang out with him when I was in my natal country.
An old friend of mine was pretty wealthy he was able to start a business he wanted where they needed atleast 500k to 1 million to get to where it needs to go. And his dad could cover it. His dad also bought his house and just made his loan payment like 300 something a month.
His dad retired in his 40s a multi millionaire
Was I jealous? I’d be lying if I said I wasn’t a little bit.
Everyone gets different cards in life. So don’t compare yourself. You will just feel bad.
Instead try and do a little bit of something each day
Facebook is just facebook
I used to hangout with them in real life.
hmmm, well, I guess if you want to recruit that many. isn’t that the limit?
Yea 5000 is the limit.
The sz is too much for me.
Well comparing yourself to your buddies won’t make it any easier
Try to be happy with your current friends.
If they dont Wanna have contact with you its What it is.
I am happy of my current friends but I am not happy of myself.
Two of my friends from school are doctors now. We used to study together. It was great times. I hope I’ll be able to Study again soon.
Such friends make me worse honestly. I am glad I don’t talk to them anymore. Stress.
Not showing off but my current pdoc is the cousin of my mother’s best friend. I felt awkward with her honestly, I prefer a male pdoc.
And the sky is blue, water is wet and getting shot hurts. Of course it’s unfair. Ask the billions of people who died in wars or from disease before they hit 20. I mean I have sympathy for you and a little complaining is normal but everybody experiences how unfair life is. It might not help to hear other peoples complaints but I could make a list of how unfair life has been to me. In fact, from reading your posts, it’s not fair that you got all those women or had all those friends when I’ve had very few.