I've reached a new low

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Arguing about my sexuality with strangers on the internet…lol. Some girl was insistent that I could not be asexual because I have a libido and masturbate…despite me having an aversion to sexual activities and having no interest in participating in them along with the fact that I have never had a sexual attraction to anyone specific in my life…asexuality is on a spectrum. Just like sexuality in general.

Are there days when I question my sexuality? Absolutely. Sometimes I wonder if I would still have my sex aversion if all the bad psychosis stuff didn’t ruin sex for me. But the thing is that only I get to question my sexuality…only I get to discover in the end what I really am…no one else gets to decide for me what my sexuality is.

So there. Hmph! :triumph:

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Don’t think you have to please anyone but yourself with how you express your sexuality. As long as you aren’t hurting anyone else they have no say about what you do with your body. You might accept other people’s advice, if you feel like it, but don’t let people make demands on your sexuality. True sexual freedom includes the right to say no just as much as the right to say yes. Your sexuality belongs to you and no one else.

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I liken myself to a dirty sock. People use me up and then toss me aside.