Anyone enjoy going out? What do you do?
Why do you go out? To see people? Buy things? Look at shops?
There is a beach to walk on - but why just to look at the beach?
Not sure what to do if I want to get out of bed.
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I have a similar issue. I rarely go out. Some times i think its some kind of recessive trait I have that recoils from the Sun and the light. I used to walk at night which was highly relaxing and seemed somewhat therapeutic. I could expend energy that way. I did this for many years. But since i was hospitalised i now dont do that anymore. Its quite a sad state. But i make art so hoping that stimulates me more somehow and makes up for something missing eventually. But hard to motivate myself. I cant socialise either. I just have no will to. I dont know whats wrong. Just feels like my life has passed by.
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I don’t go out a ton except for daily runs to the store that’s within walking distance. I’ve gotten a lot better at small talk and that’s made going out a lot less intimidating. I still don’t think I’m good at it, but it’s progress I guess.
In general I much prefer to stay in my apartment. I don’t have much social stamina and can only tolerate so much interaction with people.
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I don’t tolerate the sun very well. When it’s dark out I feel far more comfortable
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If I don’t get some exercise soon I’m going to have problems and I don’t want to be socially feral.
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I love to walk on the beach and to the shops or flea market 
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i dont go out. i like to be alone and work. i dont like many voices simultaneously. it gets to me after a while.
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went to dunkin donuts today if that counts?
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sometimes i see sunrises an sunsets on the beach. it is dreamy. very beautiful. the other day i went to the beach at night and there was a storm out in the ocean and from the beach the visuals were amazing.
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I’m going out this Sunday to meet a potential date or friend
So excited I guess.
We will probably go to a park.
I think weather is meant to be nice.
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- I like going to the park, walking around and maybe eating lunch at the park.
- I like going to the mall, just browsing new clothes.
- I like going to the book store, browsing new books and new magazines.
- I like grabbing food at sit down restaurants; some are technically fastfood and some are not.
- I like going to the aquarium and seeing the animals there.
- I like going to the zoo and the aviary.
- I love going to conventions and festivals.
- I really like going to the Farmers’ Market, once it starts in June, getting fresh veggies and unique treats.
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Are you retired or a lady of leisure?
I am not working, currently. Maybe I can, again, someday. But I do look forward to the weekends, when Hubby and I can get out of the house and do fun stuff. I live for the weekends.
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I avoid going out and stay in the apartment most of the time.
I go out to get groceries once a fortnight.
I go to see my girl 2-3 times week.quick visits unfortunately but thankful to see her.
I take my dog a few metres for a wee four times a day.
That’s pretty much all I do as far as going out.
I was going to the gym six days a week and it depressed me that i can’t go anymore because of all the people.
I was only at the gym a month before I quit.
Now I don’t exercise but hope to start a video or something.
I avoid most of my family.
There are very few people I go well with.
Reason for that may be people want to suppress me to make themselves feel superior over me and i don’t believe that but there disrespect feels uncomfortable and is not acceptable.
I get a bit bored lately just being in apartment because I can’t watch all actors either.
Such as I loved inventing Anna .
Great series and I could watch all the other actors except for the girl who plays the journalist.
She was supressing the hell out of me through the screen.
Disgusting unattractive unacceptable behaviour so I refuse to watch the series because of her.
The same the originals don’t want watch cam and davina.
They are like that too.
Not many tv shows I can watch anymore.
Thankfully I could watch latest matrix and love love loved it.
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I love how passionate your posts are. Thanks for sharing.
I used to like the matrix too.
I don’t have the attention / interest in movies for a while.
It is really great you are still able to enjoy some things.
If not everything.
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I have no interest in doing anything either. I look forward to the summer because its warm but now im sitting in an airconditioned house almost shivering. I dont like too much sun because of sunburn. As for going out and socialising I find people to be strangers who lack depth. The last time I went out to the mall was the day before mothers day and saw hundreds maybe thousands of people and the only social interaction I had that wasnt with someone doing a job was when a woman my age turned in line and commented on what I was buying. This was the only in person social interaction that was not familial or work related that Ive had in a long time.
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Thank you kxev.
Appreciate it.
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