With someone I’ve known for a year now, we tried to date when we first met but it didn’t feel right at the time, but now that I know them more and they know me more it feels right now, today is our first date. I’m going over there to hang out and then we’re going to our drummers NYE party. It’s a sober one with board games and such
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Hmmm, are you sure it’s cool with your boyfriend to be dating? I mean it’s good to be openminded but being polyamorous plus also dating? There has to be some boundaries.
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What? You go on dates to find other partners, that’s how dating works lol. I only have one partner and yes my bf encourages me to date.
You’re making it sound like it’s normal to go on dates when you already have a committed partner. You go on dates to find a partner when you don’t have one, not when you already have one. Isn’t that obvious?
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Ooh that sounds fun! Glad to hear you’ve got some fun plans in place. Will you stay awake til midnight?
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If you’re polyamorous, it’s completely normal. Monogamy is the most common type of relationship but it’s not the only way.
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Seems like a mess to me. But to each his own.
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Don’t need your judgements because I don’t really care about your opinion. It’s really not a mess, it’s lovely and beautiful for me and for everyone involved. If it wasn’t I wouldn’t be doing it
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To each his own.
I wouldn’t do it, I’m a one trick pony lol, not that I’m with anyone though. have fun i guess. I’ve never heard of this polyamorous thing before.
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Both monogamy and polyamory have benefits and pitfalls. It just depends on what you want. I enjoy my partner being able to get needs met elsewhere that I can’t give him and I want to be able to get needs met that he can’t fulfill elsewhere, it works for us!
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what needs? dyou mean sex or something else, tbh i don’t have a clue, i don’t know what any of the terms are, i just found out i am demi-sexual and it sort of pisses me off i’s on the ace spectrum bc i don’t want to be, it just highlights my failures in that area 
Nothing wrong with being poly!!
Sounds like you might have a wonderful night.
Happy new years
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And I don’t think it’s messy if it’s something you think could work.
No relationship is perfect either.
But they are worth it if it’s what someone wants to try.
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i would be really jelaous if my partner go for date with other man.i think i m getting really old.new generation has different taste of relationship.i m respect every experience.im 40 by the way.i m together with my wife since 23 years.we met in 2000 when we are 18 years old and never brake up since 23 years
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I’m 31 lol we’re in the same generation
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yes we can be.but this relationship types very new phenomenon in my country.usually practice by new generations.sorry for misunderstooding
The board games sound cool. I love board games. The rest of it sounds like a nightmare and selfish. But that’s my opinion. Sometimes I think you post stuff like this for negative attention.
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Or maybe y’all just like to give negative attention? I posted this because I was happy, way to rain on my parade guys
Sorry for being my ■■■■■■■ self
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This forum can be so toxic I find myself pulling away slowly. I might just delete my account if I can’t be myself without negative opinions
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