My cousin and her husband , they’ve just had a baby. My cousin decides to move in with her husband and 2 day old kid into her parents. And her father in law has flown to London too.
The guy (her husband ) treats his mil like a chef. She comes from work and he’s asking her what’s on the menu. She made food in the morning but they want something different. The guy does not work. He could have made his own food
people live the way they live.
I think that my parents are very compatible but there are a lot of couples who are not compatible.
Also we have to ask what does she do?
Is she a clerk? a researcher?
If her work is an unqualified low pay job I wouldn’t say the guy won the lottery.
For me I hate the idea of getting married to any type of woman,
but I am more approving of the idea to marry a male.
I know you say it’s not your business but I would say something if I was you. That’s bullcrap! She shouldn’t have to cook for him, he’s a grown man. I’m so glad I’m teaching my son how to cook so he won’t ever do that.
lol…
What does it matter what his wife earns. She’s an idiot for giving him her card. He earns nothing because he’s illegal and not allowed to work.
He bought her a phone (Samsung s8) and proceeds to post a pic on Facebook saying I hope you like your gift along with the phone pic. He bought her a gift but with her money. I feel bad.
You should marry a man if you want to marry a man , obviously. Do what makes you happy
It’s a tough situation. I’m sorry your family is dealing with this. New parents frequently need some help finding their feet, though. Having a baby is a huge chcange all at once, and maybe they didn’t realize how much of a change it was. I hope they can find their independence soon. If they’re married, he should be able to become a legal citizen soon, right?
When my parents had their first kid, they moved in with my grandparents, and my dad quickly reverted to an overgrown child. But once they were able to get their own place, he grew up again and became a good father. Living with parents can bring out the lazy in people, because they’re used to parents doing things for them, and because they’re feeling like they have very little control over their own lives. So hopefully he will get a job and take on some responsibilities once his paperwork is sorted out.
I’m a 58 year old male lout who never got married. Maybe it is for the best. I’m not much up on domestic chores, but I wouldn’t expect my wife to do them either. We would just let things go to hell, and clean up just enough to make our place livable. I wouldn’t expect her to do all the cooking, but if she did fix me a meal I didn’t like I would probably choke down as much of it as I could, and then I would discreetly slip out the back door and go to McDonald’s when she’s not watching. That’s probably a lifestyle most women wouldn’t like, so maybe it is for the best I never married.