It appears that my husband is pretty passive aggressive

Think it’s all about how his parents bought him up
Father was a bit of a thug builder
Mum is a mean skinny witch

He is autistic which is a disability that makes you kind
But I think this stuff is getting worse

How does it even go… confronting this?

When it’s little inflections…
or put down comments that are usually a joke but are now habit…
The kind of thing he wouldn’t think he’s doing wrong in a million years

Where do you go with it when every bit of it is conversational
How do you even begin to address ingrown habits that are a part of the person?

Mean skinny witch’
Lol that’s a little harsh isn’t it.

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She won’t let a meeting pass without trying to find out my dress size or how marathoners are serious runners when she knows all” I managed we’re half’s or that my ebike is not really peddling
Drives me nuts

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I’m more on the confrontational side of how I deal with things.
Likely from my upbringing. And Ive always had the rebellious nature.

Maybe just point out that he’s being negative if he is instead of saying he’s passive aggressive

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Good that you’re rebellious
It’s a helpful trait for a lot of people
I don’t know, it helps for some people
Just to be yourself

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I’m an incredible peace keeper
Unless it’s a full blown confrontation and then I don’t know how to express myself
I just have hissy fits
But that’s just with my sisters

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It’s hard to deal with people. We’re all different lol. And some people are just a pain in the butt

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