Honestly,i think i am not sharing my happiness with anyone,its like i am shy to let people know about my achievement and i don’t really feel happy when people around me is successful,its like i always celebrate my own success and not others,do you think i am a selfish or self-centered person?
0h,and when i laugh i always laugh alone(there is people around me)but i don’t laugh alongside with people,it doesn’t happen frequently
We have tendency to become jealous of someone, all of us do.
Well, it seems to me you are not bad, but can be better.
Thank you @plumber,your always kind with your words!
You don’t have to be perfect Mobc.
Here’s what I’ve heard in AA meetings a thousand times:
The Serenity Prayer
“God grant me the serenity, to accept the things I can not change
The courage to change the things I can
And the wisdom to know the difference”.
I’m not criticizing, just thought this might help.
I do not know, but selfishness is not so bad, when I lived in my auto over two years in America, I was very selfish, which might have enabled me to survive then. If somebody else is successful, I think it is good, although I may not celebrate their successes.
Ask this question, many couples who have separated may also ask this question?
Thank you for your honest opinion,I don’t find it criticizing but your opinion had let me had clearer thinking