Ex was violent towards me so I left her about a month ago. I was granted a protective order a few days ago and since then she’s been making her keys jingle loudly around the house. She’s not even supposed to be here but she’s not messing with me besides this. She has pepperspray and a knuckle weapon on her keys. I feel really afraid but I’m moving tomorrow… not sure it’s worth calling the cops over but I want to tell the judge if this is intimidation. I have NEVER been violent with her.
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I’m autistic and mentally ill she shouldn’t be treating me like this its.making my ptsd really bad
I’m really paranoid now ugh I hate this so much… I’m leaving tomorrow just gotta keep calm
That sounds intimidating, or at least annoying for her to be passive-aggressive. If you are not supposed to be around her you shouldnt allow her to cross that boundary.
I have been dealing with creeps/predators all night since I posted my facebook link. I just want peace now, I have lost trust/faith in relationships I think I just want to be single forever.
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I’m paranoid too now.
They will kill me
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It sounds like she’s just being a ■■■■■. She knows if she does anything, she’s going down hard
Don’t hesitate to call the police if she starts on you. Stay safe , you’ll be out soon
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oh no…
why is everyone becoming so ill, is it the spring time? I’ve read that springtime is the worst for mental health, I dont know why–people just coming out of their hibernation and stirred by so much energy, there’s some advice I have.
Do something productive today, something small, paint a picture, say prayer–let your emotions go or release what you feel if it no longer serves you.
My moms going thru bouts of psychosis, Im paranoid about it–like a chain reaction, I get manic, my mom is delusional, she is becoming med-resistant, the house got struck by lightning, wifi went out, weird stuff.
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This weather maybe makes us crazy.
I live in fear. My heart dances in my chest
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yeah for sure, I make people laugh when I mention that the weather is bipolar…
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I say that sun is psychotic.
Cos it makes me psychotic
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Im becoming ill because im.being abuse not because it’s spring time… ok
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I dunno where you’re from, but I believe in most of the states, if there’s a protective or restraining order, and she does anything to you, there are additional charges tacked on for retaliation.
If she’s violating the protective order by being there, you are well within your rights to call the police and have her removed. I’d at least call a non emergency line, and have them document her behavior and presence, noting the order you have in place.
If you think she’s going to try creating problems at the time of your move, you can call the police for a civil standby while you move. They will keep her outside and away from you during.
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I don’t know if I’d call it intimidation but more passive aggressive behavior.
She sounds crazy as shite! I think brass knuckles are outlawed in a lot of states.
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They’re not brass knuckles they’re like this cat shaped thing that’s sold as a "Keychain " but it’s definitely used to poke people’s eyes with the ears
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I have friends helping me move. 6 people. So hopefully she’s not dumb enough to start ■■■■
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Gotcha. Just try and ignore her until you can move out.
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it’s good that you are moving… i hope she doesn’t know where you are moving to…
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No she does not!
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It’s too easy for me to make suggestions. I crumbled when I came face to face with my abuser after so many years. The only thing I can say is that I empathize with your situation. I hope tomorrow comes fast for you.
-S
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Can one of your friends stay in the house with you until you move out tomorrow?
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