Everyone hates me.
Do lots of people with sz think this ?
Is it a common feeling amongst Sz ?
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I feel that way like everyone is against me. My doctor says I’m schizoaffective but I still am paranoid that people are against me
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I have that. Family members, friends, forum members, waiters, strangers on the street.
They all stare and judge, secretly hate me and only put up with me. Just playing nice til they can get away from me.
It sucks, crap feeling. Sometimes I have to reality check with people, just to remind myself. Also running a list of why you’re loved helps.
Sorry you’re going through this dude. For what it’s worth, I like you, you’re one of us.
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I think everyone hates me too and I need constant reassurance in the form of hugs and snuggles
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Thank you @Ooorgle I like you very much too, you’re a sweetie and I like you @Loke and @anon39015889
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I still get this. I think it is part of the whole paranoia thing in genral where you think, because things have been bad they will be bad in the future. It gets you thinking in a negative mindset about situations, like that people will not like you. It is really hard to get over.
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Haha 
you’re one silly dude!!!
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A lot of people experience that from time to time. Not just schizophrenics, though I think it is much more prevalent among schizophrenics. It’s a pretty mean thing to do to yourself. Most people don’t care much one way or the other if they don’t know you.
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I texted someone last night and said exactly these words “Everybody hates me.” It’s the f*n voices. They lie. They are not to be trusted. People do like me. They have said so. I am a kind, generous person. Just keep repeating things like that to yourself. Also, even if it seems like someone really truly does have an issue with you, it come be the voices pressuring them to treat you like that so that they can continue to control, dominate, and manipulate you. Don’t fall for it.
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I feel like I’m a burden on my family.
I don’t know about people hating me but I’m pretty sure that nobody actually likes me in real life. I’m not “likeable”.
It might be due to the famous “flat affect”. People might not like people who appear not to like them back.
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I feel like I’m not worth loving or liking. I’m not sure if that’s quite the same thing, but I’m pretty convinced that it’s true.
I go back and forth between thinking everyone hates me and no one cares enough about me to hate me.
Just for the record, everyone is against me but I don’t feel hated. Maybe if I looked at people closer I might see they hate me but as for now it seems like most people are friendly because I"m friendly.
But when we start using terms like “everybody” the chances are high that it is NOT "everybody ".
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