I boughr this bracelet which is frankly my bracelet even if it cost me £1 … it must be lying around she asked me if she can give to my cousin… i said no … she said why do you hate her… i don’t… but its not hers to give
she has just gone and done it anyway… im constantly feeling completely disrespected
She constantly tells me I should help mum … i do my best i can’t do more than that… she always said I don’t need to get married as I should look after my dad who is no more … and now I need to look after mum i can’t do more than I can
She’s wrong. And she was wrong to give away your bracelet.
It does not matter if I do not wear it it was not hers to give…
I agree. You should let your cousin know what happened
I cant that now but I feel terrible it looks like she tried to pack it up and give it to her when i wasn’t there… i saw it when my cousin was unwrapping it
Keep your jewelry in a safe then so she can’t do that again
yes …i guess I should do that . But I have serious issues with her … she does not like me one bit and I struggle to like her
My grandma was really mean so I totally get it
She shouldn’t be doing this.
Maybe talk to your Mother about it.
I found out ppl get more annoying and stubborn as they get older.
Is your cousin just a little girl? And I mean, it was only a 2 dollar bracelet.
My mum tells her I help her but its clearly not good enough what I do … its a reason why everytime she asks me to do something i oftentimes won’t do it … i really struggle with her
no she’s about 28 but that’s not the point to me… i just don’t feel it was hers to give
Okay.
But it was still just a 2 dollar trinket. Just forget about it…not worth getting all worked up over.
Thats just one side of it though …
I guess she is from a different era so her views might be different…
But i don’t like feeling like i am useless…
And I dont like to be reminded of how I dont help enough
Sell her walker on Ebay…see how she likes that! lol!
I will be leaving as soon as I can afford to , which frankly she won’t approve but I need to get out for both of us
Yes!
Get out there and become who you were meant to be without the confines of busybody family members!
The sooner, the better! 
If I get married there is no way in hell I am allowing relatives to tell me i need to invite 500 guests… they’re not invited thelselves as far as I’m concerned … cos its not their wedding… also once I move out im never talking to these relatives …the only reason I see them is my granmother with us …