Why am I so stupid? Honestly if I died I think everyone would be better off. I just continue to ■■■■ my life up more and more.
Deeper and deeper I mess things up. I can’t do this anymore. I’m just a big fat ugly person. I don’t know what to do.
I mess up every day. Recognizing it is more than some people do, @FatMama so you’re ahead of the game at that. Usually, I mess up because I didn’t go with my gut instinct. So, I’m trying to learn to trust me better.
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You are a good mom though, stop being so harsh on yourself!
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You are not fat or ugly or stupid.
We all mess up. Some more than others. Things still work out.
Why are you upset? What do you think you did so badly?
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I’m sorry you’re feeling so bad. 
If you feel in danger of hurting yourself, please talk to someone or go to the ER. You’re worth so much more than you could fathom. I know it’s hard to see it though; self-loathing is an insidious beast. Is there anything you can do, in this moment, and that doesn’t involve harming yourself, to help yourself feel better?
I don’t know what’s going on in your life to make you feel like this so I’m going to refrain from commenting too much on that but I subscribe to the notion that most things are fixable. Please know that we’re here for you. 
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I have paperwork that is very important and I just don’t know how to do it. I’m so frustrated.
You’re not any of those things,
Give yourself a break.
Paperwork can be complicated and hard to figure out.
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Do you have someone to help you?
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This is me all the time. Can you have one of your kids help you with it?
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Go to the source of the papers for help. I hate it when people expect you to know exactly what they are thinking and doing and expect you to respond without fail. Not knowing how is not your failure. It’s their failure for not making themselves clear and easily understood by the layman. You have a right to be angry, but not at yourself.
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Monday I’ll call them and hope to get through. I tried to today but couldn’t get to them. Its been kind of a shitty week. Maybe tomorrow it will improve.
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Hoping things start getting better for you fellow canuk @FatMama
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Oh I’m sorry you’re feeling lousy @FatMama.
Hope you start feeling better soon!
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