im not ready for it. still not mature enough I don’t think. also the sz doesn’t help. before I said I wanted a child but now its on the back burner. my aunt never had kids either.
I figure if I don’t have kids by 40 I never will. I only want one child. im my next life maybe.
I totally support you in your decision. Sounds like you’ve thought about it a lot.
yes. another thing is I don’t want to be an old man their whole life. I should have had kids in my 20’s when I was healthy.
I wanted kids when i was younger and married. Now i’m 42 and divorced and i’m kind of glad i never had any. It would’ve been nice i think but the truth is i don’t think i could be a good enough father, dealing with all that i deal with.
@Lifer , take note that in all probability, having a child will make it more difficult for you to make
money, succeed professionally, lead an active lifestyle.
I recommend that you have a child only if you can do it out of wedlock.
My partner has finally accepted we may never have kids. We can’t afford doctors or adoption. I’m slightly happy we cant have kids because I’m afraid I will never be stable enough to help raise children., my Mom and my mother in law both want us to have babies.
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