Ill never be able to afford to have one/give them a good life i feel quite sad about it.
Why do you think you’ll never be able to have a baby?
How old are you?
You very well could be more stable at a different season of your life.
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Im 23 but i just feel like i wont be able to
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When I was 23 I couldn’t have had a baby either.
Work on yourself now.
You’ve got plenty of time to have a baby, you are very young.
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Men can father babies well into their 70s and 80s. Problem is you have to find a fairly young woman.
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Yeah i know. Im not sure what i want anymore.
You have a long time to go before you can’t have a baby. And you have even longer if you want to adopt. Don’t worry about that right now. I got pregnant with my daughter at 22 years old. When I took her to kindergarten I couldn’t believe how much younger I was than the other moms. I also bought a home at 23, and the neighbors would ask me when the woman of the house would be home. They thought I was the young nanny or my daughter’s big sister. I hated that. Granted I looked very young at that point but still. Trust me, you have plenty of time
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My wife was thirty when she had our daughter.
I think it could be a lot of fun to raise a kid, but I don’t think I would be a good role model for a child. I don’t know if a child could understand why its dad doesn’t work. Also, the symptoms of my illness would be a huge burden on the rest of the family. The fact that I wouldn’t bring in much money is another deterrent. It would be better for me not to try to raise a family.
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You’re putting what’s best for said baby before your own wants I’m proud of you. Get stable financially then try for a baby, you’re still young you got time almost endless if you’re male… You got time be sure you can take care of your child before having one. I know I won’t be able to take care of one (mentally, financially we’re pretty well fine) so I’m not having one again
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Yeah. My aunt got pregnant at 44 with a child the same time my wife did at 22.
We never stopped trying but never had another one. My wife stopped her menstrual cycles at 37 or 38. Early menopause. Every one is different. My aunt passed away several years ago now. Her daughter my 1st cousin is more like my niece.
They are 29 now and she is pregnant with her first.
I want six-pack abs.
I would like to have 2 babies (Male & Female) but I need to complete certain legal & biological steps in order for this to occur.
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You need to find a cookie to nookie with.
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I have found a cookie to nookie with.
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Outstanding!
(Don’t get crumbs in the bed.)
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However, she is a part of a church so I cannot nookie with her until all the legal documents have been finalized. Not to mention this is the same cookie that I had been discussing prior to my suspension.
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Eeeeek. Well, good luck with that.
I really do hope it works out. 
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I am fine with her values & beliefs.
So do I and thank-you.
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I started having these thoughts in my late twenties. I’ve learned to accept them though no one really knows what the future holds.
Hope you find comfort in something.
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