My belief that girls are speaking telepathically to one another about me hasn’t changed.
It has prevented me from getting a girlfriend and in turn has made me a lonely guy.
I’m nearly 30 and i still have this problem…
All I want to do is have someone to cuddle and treat like a lady. I’m not sure I know how to break this belief, I’m struggling …
I’ve tried all meds and nothing has shaken this stupid belief. It’s ingrained in me.
I’m doomed to live out a lonely life
What does money even mean in the end of we don’t have someone to love and share it with
It makes me so depressed I want to die
I had a post like this and it got deleted.
Hang in there @anon1152203
I promise girls are not speaking telepathically about you. If they were I would tell you honestly. But it’s simply not true. I’m sorry you’re lonely. I hope you can find a way to change this belief. Work hard.
You poor guy. Wish there was something I could say to change your mind about this, but I know how hard it is to shake this kind of belief. Hard to see you feeling this way. My heart goes out to you.
Several things.
Number one, you can try to get a BF instead of GF.
Number two, you can live with partners.
Number three, you can have friends.
Not having a GF doesn’t mean you should be lonely.
That said, you can still try to shake your belief and get a GF.
Good luck mate.
Only advice I can give is work on your loneliness before you can be together with someone. Otherwise you’d just end up being codependent on your partner. Easier said than done tho.
Number 3 is good advice. Find male friends to comfort you. Maybe go to a support group. I find it easier to find male friends. My friend Charlie has been a big help to me I think he’s set me on the right path to finding a girlfriend.
Just go out … there are all kind of girls out there. There is a girl who is thinking about herself just as you are thinking about yourself. You just have to bump into eachother.