I'm a really sensitive person

Sometimes perhaps too sensitive.

I sometimes feel ppl don’t like me. Call it wat u like. Beliefs of reference etc.

But I often just FEEL some ppl don’t like me and I don’t know why.

It hurts and then I end up not liking them…

So…

Whats the solution is my gut instinct right and am I doing the right thing to avoid them.

Or

Whats the alternative??

Eg if someone avoids me a lot even including family member/s.

Or does not want to talk a lot or much with me

Or beliefs of reference

Etc…

Can anyone relate

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It especially hurts when it’s a relative or family member who I used to be close to.

It’s so hard loving ppl when you’ve been let down badly in the past, more than once.

As human beings, we cant like everybody, nor can we expect everybody to like us.

I guess it becomes a problem if one becomes overly suspicious that other people dont like them. Then it can become an unhealthy preoccupation.

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Same here.i feel like people see me as dangerous person and most of the people hate me.but i think its paranoia.and after i changed my med i don t care anymore.everything is good so far.if you don t mind i want to ask you a question.sorry if it will offend you did you get otism test?

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My job specialist asked me if I had autism too…

I might do

But I’ve never had the assessment

I find out on Friday if I get therapy

If yes, I will ask them about autism.

Do u have autism?

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İ m suspicious about that.i used to know that autism is hard mental breakdown but i see at here autistic people and all of them look like ok.thats why i m suspicious about autism in me.i can not guess people reaction to my action well thats why i got bullying lot at schools.also i don t have friendship feelings.but other than i m ok i think

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Oh OK. Yeah I struggle with that too. I tend to not be able to read ppl well perhaps

I’m. Not sure.

So I end up just assuming they find me a joke.

But maybe it’s just cos I’m entertaining.

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Because you can be the nicest, friendliest, best looking person around but there’s just some people who are going to find something about you they don’t like and not like you. From Jesus to Neil Armstrong to Taylor Swift; they’re some of the most popular people in history and not everybody likes them.

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I thinks it’s a skill to manage your emotions and to not take things personally.

You know you’re a good person, a person worthy of dignity and respect, so hold yourself in high esteem. Don’t shy away from people: let them speak no matter what they say. Listen without prejudice. Don’t try to interpret what they say if they’re vague. Tell them you don’t understand what they’re saying.

Some people are not going to like you, but the goal is not to be liked by everyone. The goal is to accept yourself. And that’s independent of whether someone likes you or not.

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It’s really hard if it’s a family member that doesn’t like me and I feel excluded

But I see where u coming from :+1::pray:

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How do you know the family member doesn’t like you? Did they outright say it?

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I don’t know tbh.

It’s really complicated to explain that.

They don’t want to speak to me until after I’ve had therapy. Completed.

I think me and the person are both not perfect people. I want to find a way to be in harmony with my family. And this person is a part of the family.

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Don’t want to go to family meet ups if me and that person aren’t on good terms. Feels horrible

But family is important

So that’s y I wish we were on good terms.

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@Zoe

They said this to you? Okay, tell them that’s their choice, but you have nothing against them. And tell them to feel free to talk to you if they change their mind.

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They blocked me so I can’t tell them that.

But yes that’s good advice, thankyou.

I think probably I’m the major problem. Here but idk.

It’s why I need therapy. Lol

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@Zoe

I think you’re a wonderful person, and therapy is good for everyone (me too)!

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Thankyou!!!

Don’t see you around much on here but you seem great too :heart:

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youre the best zoe be confident

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Thanks that’s sweet. You actually made me feel like I can get back to sleep now.

I wish you the best too.

You ain’t bad yourself either.

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