"If you're going to be a door mat, you can expect to get stepped on."

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I have to remind myself that people have been destructive toward me and that there are times when it is very important to speak up.

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I am also not always the best at this, I tend to be too accommodating at times. But I feel the older I get, the more I can learn to be assertive. NOT aggressive. If you go too far the other way, you’ve lost the point, I find, and have just created a new problem. Very hard to find a balance between too allowing and too high of boundaries. I trust it can be done! Good luck.

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