If you could magically remove one person from your life, who would it be?

They don’t die or get hurt,

You just don’t have to deal with them anymore,

No consequences.

Who do you pick?

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Already did this. Cut off my MIL.

Also cut off my family for different reasons. I don’t keep toxoc people in my life.

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I don’t want my mom in my life anymore

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I can’t decide between my husband’s friend,

Or my husband’s cousin.

It’s a real close call,

But I’m going to have to say cousin.

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My brother in law. He’s tried to drug me twice and that was confirmed by my husband.

He opened up a credit card in his dads name while his dad was dying and charged up an $18,000 debt that now has to come out of the estate.

He has very low income but keeps buying really expensive things and showing them all the time to rich friends.

He’s never lived on his own before and now he wants to live with us. I am so upset about it

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I remember talking about this guy,

You cannot let him in your house again.

I’d think your husband would not accept this considering what that guy has done to you.

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I hope not. I’m freaked out about it

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Why would your husband allow it?

I would walk out if my husband let someone who drugged me in the house.

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He tried to take care of everyone. He’s a kind man, but sometimes too kind. Too forgiving. Right now my brother in law is living with a roommate, so for the immediate future I’m safe. But when his lease is up, he is hinting pretty strongly he’d like to live with us.

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If he lets him come live with you, you should walk out. Thats a very unsafe situation and allowing him in is abusive to you.

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I agree with @anon4362788.

It’s abuse to let someone who has directly hurt you in the house.

I’d leave over it.

Not trying to gang up on you,

It’s just a very serious situation.

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Ok. Thanks @Charles_Foster @anon4362788

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@Charles_Foster are you still here?

(Sorry, I couldn’t resist - you ARE appreciated.)

The person I most wanted gone is gone.

I’m taking the win.

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do u know anyone '‘truly’ to fully to dislike tem?

Haha!

Nice one, @shutterbug!

And yes, @san_pedro, there are lots of people I very much dislike,

But in this scenerio you can only get rid of one.

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My son’s stepmom loves him. I have no doubt but she has a bad temper though I think she’s trying to do better.

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The only person I can think of is the person inside my head

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who is that Velociraptor? i bet its your accountant :joy:

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I can’t think of anyone that annoys me enough to warrant deletion from my life. Of course, I don’t spend a lot of time around too many of them, besides parents.

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im not bumping anyone off anyway

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