If you could had everything of this, what do you appreciate, need, the most

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Sex

Being heard and understood

Touch

Being accepted for who you are

Other. (Food, air, Internet, etc is not included)

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Sex, implies touch and being accepted the way you are. Also in my view implies touches.

But for sure one can not live without food or air. So it get’s down to what life is as of right now food air inet and phone. It is not like I have a choice even as it seems I so.

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That’s sexually motivated touch.

What about not sexually motivated touch.

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Sex implies,

Yea ideally, lol. :sweat_smile:

I think sex can often be toxic unfortunately

Though, not always!! Necessarily.

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For me, the most important is being accepted for who I am

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Being heard and understood.

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Those are good, but they only last for so long.
I’d rather have touches full of feelings… that goes withouth meds…

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Yeah, we can all be odds at time. Each of us are particularry sensitive with lots of lacks.
Being accepted and being understood would make each blend in easier.

I wonder if we accept others for who they are?

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Both being excepted and heard. Not really to be excepted by other’s but to be excepted by myself.

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Thought again. Other. I want a time machine. Go back in time. Keep ex away before giving birth to kiddo. That would prevent all the trouble of the last twelve years. The three years of fighting CPS to protect my kid. The mental health stuff coming out of that. The problems that brought for Kid. Our family situation going worse than it was. The physical health trouble. The loss of…almost everything. The losing of trust in everything, including myself.

Strangely, I had a dream during pregnancy, telling me to do exactly that. I did not listen.

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Sex seeing as I am a young virgin.

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I need internet.

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Sex, rest comes with the package.

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Fill the bottom and climb up!

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Food, internet video games

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A decent partner - sex does not come in to it, i would rather cuddle up and bog off to sleep. You randy buggers on here, are probably dying to get your leg over - but i could not give a monkeys.

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Close family ties.

A couple new, true, friendships

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I am filling the bottom the best I can. And that’s about it. Can not find the stairways to heaven.

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Tbh i have climb up a bit, but there are dangerous holes in the stairs.

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