That’s pretty tough even if it’s economically sound. I love my mom, she’s become a good person in her old age, but she still has traits that make her really hard to live with. Is your mom very opinionated? Does she tell you what to do a lot? If so, start now working on ways you two can have healthy boundaries. There are lots of books on it. Maybe you could check one out from the library. Having boundaries doesn’t mean being mean or rude. It’s a good thing if done right and is actually good and healthy for everyone involved.
Ok. Well at least you can be an adult at her house. That’s a very good thing. It’s hard to lose autonomy. When I left my ex I moved into my moms condo. My daughter and I lasted one month, and had to find a way to move out. We couldn’t stand living there. She was all over us. It was awful.
Oh man. I don’t know why parents do that. I respect my kids and their right to make their own choices in life. I try really hard to not give unsolicited advice. I mean I gave advice when they were younger, but they’re older now.
The only 2 things I’m giving unsolicited advice on right now is to my 17 year old in regards to two things. 1) she wants to drop out of school and she’s only a junior. I’m telling her no way. A high school diploma is extremely important. And 2) she wants to adopt a puppy that’s going to grow to be about a hundred pounds, but she doesn’t want to train it to not jump up on people. She says she wants her dog to jump up. In my opinion, she shouldn’t be allowed to have the dog unless she agrees to train the puppy to not do that.
I don’t understand the foreign western society. If a mom takes rent from her son.
I think for my mom that all of her property is mine and my brother, we can take now as her wise and all after her.