She was younger than me and very pretty but it fizzled out, my friend thinks it was a scam but I’m not so sure, she wanted to meet for coffee and dinner.
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Probably a scam.
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Your friend is likely right.
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I thought sometimes women like older men, its kinda bummed me out, a friend of mine is dating this girl i know and she asked me the other day ‘how’s your sex life’ which seemed very strange bc i never thought she would ask that but i told her it was ‘non existent’ she was encouraging me to look at more dating apps so I’m trying, i am probably one of the people that is easy to scam but it just makes me feel bad the whole thing.
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It’s not anything mean,
But when a gorgeous younger woman comes on to you hard,
It’s probably a scam every time.
Have realistic expectations and go out into the world to find women if online dating isn’t easy or you don’t like it.
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i dont think i can go out and meet women, most people meet up at bars in town on the weekend, i dont think i can do that as i’m scared of those places
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Volunteer somewhere, join a walking group. Theres ways to meet women. I should probably take my own advice.
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Some advice I saw once was this: If you want to find a partner who shares your interests, you won’t find them at a bar/nightclub. You will find them doing those interests. If you like reading, go to the library. If you like sports, join a local casual sports team. If you like coffee, go to a coffee shop. That is where the people who share your interests hang out.
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Best wishes for you with your romantic love life.
May it go well.
I am chatting with someone exclusively.
He could be a romance scammer aswell.
Says he work’s seven days a week and is professional etc
We go so beautifully together.
Have a good flow and connection.
But some of the scammers are very good at chatting and say the perfect things to make you trust them and fall for them.
I Am giving him benefit of doubt but will not send him money.
Unfortunately I sent him underwear photos of me which if he is a scammer he could use for scams.
I adore chatting with him and love spending time with him.
Hope he is real deal true beaut.
So cruel to scam people.
Bad morals!
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I hear you guys its just i do quite a lot of things, i hang out at my local cafe, attend my charity a lot but still no luck, i seem to be incapable of attracting the opposite sex
@SacredNeigh7 good luck with your love interests 
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Solid advice there.
Me, I like making headcheese, so I’m at the slaughter-house every Saturday with Bubba and the boys.
OW BABY!
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Glad you’re having fun i guess lol
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Sometimes. Are you wealthy? That helps.
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I was romance scammed.
Sent him nude photos because I thought he was my boyfriend.
Now he can use my photos to scams innocent men anc make money because he is very good with his words.
He says all the right things.
I can’t believe how dumb I am.
Can’t believe I sent him nude photos.
I thought he was respectful to me but he was pretending to be so I would let my guard down.
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Use this as a learning experience. Never a good idea to send nude photos to someone you dont really know well.
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I was basing it on the fact that men usually fully mature at the age of 40 (from what I’ve heard)
I’ve never met a single person I dated at a bar. I’ve met them at clubs I joined, school, while working, at religious organizations etc but never parties or bars.
I agree you need to go to things that interest you. Get to know people there and let it grow into something more.
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I have a niece who is almost 30 and she’s never had a boyfriend. Shes gorgeous, was in a sorority, is smart and is successful in her career. BUT she’s absolutely terrible at flirting! There’s no way any guy would know she’s interested.
Point being, maybe work on your flirting skills a bit. Work on getting to know the women (or men etc) you’re interested in. Work on giving them subtle but not overbearing cues that you’re interested and being flirtatious
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I edited your title because her ethnicity has nothing to do with the post.
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I don’t even know at this time why I haven’t banned you for good. You constantly insult members.
One more asinine comment and you can be gone for 3 months.
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