thinking “She’s scared me for the last time.”
How did she scare you? How does she often do so?
She taught me to be afraid of men. She’s dead now.
Why was she afraid of men?
Her husband was violent.
So, she thought all men would be like him? Generalizing?
You lived with her?
Yes, but i got away as much as I could. She was a cold person. It’s not impossible to learn the ways of healthier people.
It sounds like she needed to work through a lot of issues, but failed to do so, with or without a therapist.
I am sorry that she wasn’t a better parent.
So am I sorry she wasn’t a better parent.
Man, that’s a rough situation. I remember a friend I had back in the 1970’s. I started to hate him because he was mean and intimidating. I finally told him not to come to my apartment again. He agreed and I never saw him after that. For the first time in my life I wanted someone dead. I wasn’t going to kill him. I just wanted him dead so he wouldn’t bother me anymore. I never felt that way about anyone again. As the months passed, that really negative emotion faded away. I felt bad about my feelings towards him and couldn’t believe I was like that at one point. I was a non-violent person for all of my life. I’m 64 now and I’ve never even been in a fist fight. I find that bad feelings fade with time. Like getting over a girl who once dumped me. Hope this helps.
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Hi
Where r u from
I come from my mother. That statement alone wears me out.
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Ok
But my previous post was directed at a different poster
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@Tuzaatma where r u from
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