I refuse to be bullied

i refuse to let anyone take advantage or say what ever they want to me because im schizophrenic paranoid. especially my ex husband who sees his kids when ever he feels which is not often and threatens to take our kids becsuse he is afraid i will put him on child support. Go ahead jerk lets go to court like you claim you will win heads down because im a disabled veteran and your normal. im not afraid of you or the people you have in the military also thats coaching you. i will not let you or them bully me anymore. I know there is alot of military people on here that can relate possibly with other people who was in the military who dealt with other people bullying people and or them. I am not letting them do it anymore. i am not afraid of him and i am cretainly not afraid of you. and with time things will work out the way it should. amd god and karma will handle you. No this is not paranoia at all these are all facts.

Hey @anon36372018 , I’m sorry you’re having a rough time.

Hi @anon36372018

I can totally empathize with bullying in general. For me talk therapy has really helped. I’m not a mean person but I’m getting mouthy to people who disrespect me. Kudos to you for standing up for yourself.

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its okay everhopeful. im not sad or stressed out just feed up with people using my disability to their advantage to get me to do what they want by trying to have me in fear. im just letting the world know im not afraid of him or his friends or what he says.

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thank you thepoeticskunk i will keep doing it. my therapist has encouraged me to stand up for myself. she also told me she would go to court with me to let the judge know im way over capable of caring for my kids i also have my pdoc and psychiatrist who are saying the same thing. they tell me to not listen to him.

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I would get in touch with your CVSO (county veterans service officer). They will be able to help

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they advised me the same his claim of me loosing my kids to him due to my disability is a lie. They will look at it in court but it dosent render me incapable of caring or having custody of my kids or him being a better parent because he dosent have a disability. him and his friends in the military are bullies and i let him and his friends for years scare me. Now i am not. Thank you for your help.

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I’m glad you are standing up for yourself. I hate bullies.

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thank you happt_h

It’s disgraceful that your husband is using your kids as a weapon against you. However, for the sake of the kids you ought to tolerate him as best you can.

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