i cannot stand living with my 97 year old grandmother. she is driving me nuts. Yes she tries to make us all feel guilty because we get mad at her when she cannot reach the remote wich is right infront of her face and will shout at us for us to come downstairs to do it for her. she can do it. She doesnt want to. It furstrates me.
My mum is her carer and is also finding this very hard but my grandmother doesn’t want a nurse coming in to help her shower etc. She wants mum to do it.
I need to move out but don’t have the money. And my partner is taking goddam ages to move in with me saying he wants us to find the right place.
correction: i do work but it is hard ofr me to find a place to rent on my own and my partner is taking forever in that we have not even started looking. i get he wants to take his time. i get it. I might end up renting in a room till he decides he wants to look.
Might be a good idea to find a room to rent on your own for a bit. That way, you’re not building up resentment at your partner over your living situation, you get more independence, and you learn some things about living on your own for a bit. You’ll probably need to get a roommate, but most people are really fine to live with. I preferred having roommates to living alone.
He’s always moved at a glacially slow pace, but he gets there in the long run. You could always tell him you’re looking for a place on your own, so he knows you are serious about needing to leave.
I know why he wants to take his time but can get annoying. I will need to look into renting a room or stay at my mum’s aunts but will pay her for the room .I’m looking into that option … Thank you @Ninjastar