I miss having my best friend, but he stole money off me

I miss having my best friend…about 5 months ago my mum and dad told me he stole £10 out my wallet, I took the decision to ditch him as a friend…we always fell out but we were sort of best friends in a way too, we would always make up and had the exact same sense of humour. Sometimes I question wether he was my friend due to the way he treated me and sometimes I wonder why he suddenly made up with me one day maybe in order to steal that money when he came to my house ? We would usually not go out in town although we have been MANY times he would only invite me out occasionally but we still got along great, he had more friends that me and I guess he can’t always invite me out with them…but sometimes when Im sitting watching tv on a Friday night I think of lots of funny things to say if he was round at my house and I can’t because I accused him of stealing my money (I took the word of my mum and dad and I know they would never lie to me)…we had been friends for 6/7 years until I stopped talking to him…what should I do ??? He was really my only best friend and I have no one now :frowning: Cheers.

I really can relate to what has happened to you. My best friend stole thousands of dollars from my bank account, often leaving me with no money to support myself. It took me ages to wake up and see what was going on. Now we are not friends anymore. I do mourn the friendship we once had, but when I stop to think about it, it was very one-sided and unhealthy anyway. Now I have no friends at all. I have my partner so I’m not completely alone, but it still miss my friend.

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Had the same sort of thing happen to me, but it was my friends son, stealing then advertising advertising using my business name, then instead of teaching his son he defends him so gave up on both of them.

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Apologize and make up. I don’t know how much that amount of money is in U.S. currency. Is that a lot? Did you confront him and call him on the theft? Talk it out. Best friends are hard to find.

what I’ve to apologise for him stealing money out my wallet ? £10 is around $13, its not about how much it is its the fact he took it in the first place.

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Did you ever talk to him about it and ask him why he stole the money?

No he blocked me from everything before I got to that stage, and anyway he denied it straight away saying he never took anything and said something like ‘‘ill even take a picture of my wallet and show you I never took it’’ but I believe my mum and dad over him…

I know, I really dont know if he did, I trust and am very close to my mum and dad, so I trust them always…I asked my dad what I should do, should I discard him as a friend ? he more or less said yes so I took his advice and told him to get…but I miss the jokes we used to always share when we watched tv, the silly things we used to do while we ate dinner in mines, the nights out, but hey my mum and dad said he stole £10 out my wallet one night so :confused: wtf do I do lol!

I meant apologize for cutting him off. He made a very bad decision by allegedly stealing your money. I don’t know what he was thinking when he allegedly stole it but I don’t think stealing $13.00 is enough to end a friendship over.

hmm its a very difficult situation…I mean he has blocked me on every social media site and I more or less accused him of stealing my money so even if I go back to him he is going to tell me to **** off lol

Well that’s very unfortunate, iLrr14x. Kind of sad too.

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I was never sure if he ever valued my friendship but that just may be my paranoia…he visited me in hospital on both occasions I was in but treated me like ■■■■ sometimes, but I think that was just the way he was generally…and it was about 5 months ago not 6 years ago this happened. Thanks for your comments guys!

Losing a friend is a damn shame. But don’t give up on people, your next friend may be right around the corner.

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thanks for the advice guys :slight_smile:

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