Just the amount of rocket sauce I had back then really…I could orgasm three times a day in abundance…now it’s like once a month…anyone my age relate?
Yeah, my husband and I are going through this. And I can’t blame this on meds - it just happens naturally as we age.
We are trying to take it in stride, laugh a little bit about it together, and we have found that there is such a thing as “quality over quantity” 
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I agree. Touching etc still feels good and brings intimacy even if you can’t orgasm. It’s still worth it
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I’m pretty a sexual .
Most sex was bad for me.
I used to feel like someone else’s eyes and energy was in my body having sex ( shaggy wasn’t me ……)
I had voices of ones I knew moaning and tormenting me )
I was molested.
I had too much horrible sexual experience.
Other stuff too.
I want to make love , connect and be intimate n exclusive with my partner .
I don’t feel present mostly .
Like I’m not in my body and others are trying to act as me.
I have been raped in past too.
I always said not for sale.
I sometimes felt tied up in invisible restraints and like I didn’t have a voice to say no.
I enjoyed sex with a couple boyfriends where it was really awesome.
Mostly sex has not been nice.
I just want vanilla monogamous love making.
Had one x want to be swinger and he was in to stuff .we never swung but I think he took over my email and might have done identity theft of me .
So many things much more important than sex.
I value love and kindness etc
Peace , relaxing , feeling like myself.
My parents valued sex over children always etc
Sex is overrated I reckon.
Too much loveless sex etc
Mutual respect and so.