I’m having a bad evening

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I went online and joined a meetup for middle aged people - both singles and couples.

I told my husband about it and asked if he’s interested. He’s not. I said if he didn’t mind I could go on my own.
He started screaming and throwing spatulas. Then broke them in half.

I spoke very calmly and got him to calm down. He thought I wanted to meet men. I don’t. I want to make girlfriends. That’s why I invited him to come with me - we could meet other couples.

In the end he said he’ll think about trying it out. Now I’m not sure I want to because I don’t want him that upset.

He’s had 2 wives before me and both cheated on him.

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If he’s willing to meet other couples or friends with you I don’t think that’s a bad idea. I enjoy talking to my friends. If I didn’t have them I would only talk to family and I don’t do that everyday.

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Yeah. I need new friends and so does he.

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me and my first wife reached out to make friends online platonically and everyone that answered said they eventually were interested just in sex.

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I’ve had good experiences with Meetup and I hope you will too.

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I have gone to a few of these with my wife. I don’t enjoy them, but she made some new contacts and was happy after.

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@jukebox , this thing I’m talking about is different. I’m almost positive it’s not a sex hookup. They do activities together like dinners, bowling, movies, entertainment etc.

@HollyHobby , thanks. I’m glad you had a good experience

@shutterbug , that is very selfless and kind of you to go with her

@Lefty , I don’t know if I’m completely stable but I’d like to make a new friend or 2.

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Hah. I can’t take her in a fight.

:crazy_face:

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