I hate it. I hate it a lot. people grow a significance on me, and fast as hell… i try so hard to stop it but I don’t know how.
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I experience the same thing
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Emotions are hard to control as I found out recently.
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I used to be like that, now I’m more cold hearted, I try not to get too attached because well… disappointment and hurt feelings one after the other repeatedly does that to you.
You’re young, it’s kinda normal.
So, I’m going to nag you a bit now, have you considered again talking to your mom?
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more than considered… I’m going to. I’ve been talking with @anon84763962 about writing her a letter 
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That’s great !! 
hope it goes well ! Let me know afterwards
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oh there will be a post
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Just face it , @eyeofRa…
We all know this post is about me. About how you’re infatuated with my every word, and how you’ve slowly fallen in love with me.
It’s not your fault…you’re only human.
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Er…I was jest keeding there!
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When i read your posts its like I’m looking at the younger version of myself. But you are pretty close to gain just enough of insight to avoid a big mistakes.
This is what I’d advice:
- think pragmatically about your relations with people: if they are good to keep them on your side when times are tough, keep 'em, if not, don’t bother with them.
- try to write down your emotions so you could make sense of it.
- think about your reactions and why did you act the way you did.
- Think about your fears and which one particularly drives you to individuals like your bf is; and which one makes you crave for emotional responses from other people.
When you get to know yourself better you’ll be able to have more control of yourself…
Also, I think that having a long talk with your mother is a good way to start thinking about your relationships with other people…
Because everything comes out from that primary connection.
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I’m 57, and I still get screwy infatuations with different people. I think that in your case you will find more people just waiting for someone like you to fall into their clutches. I guess you can’t help your emotions, but try to keep the damage to your life to a minimum. Some things you can recover from easily, and other kinds of damage are not so easy to shrug off. Keep your wits about you. Try to be skeptical about other people. Don’t let people pressure you or bully you, if you can.
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Something I’ve learned in my old age of 26
I used to not be a skeptic and I got pushed around
Being skeptical of ppl is empowering
Not everyone is as nice as you, and me.
Gotta learn to be a skeptic
That’s how most ppl grow to like you
If you aren’t this way you appear needy and you get yourself pushed around.
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