I gave the roommate a ride

Because we both go to the same clinic and we both had appointments at 11:00 am this morning. They are actually the clinic that got us this apartment. So we’re driving along and he starts bragging. He says, “Nick, did you have a bunch of girlfriends in high school?” I told him “no” , I was not very good looking and I was quiet.
I said, " How about you?" And he starts bragging, “Yeah, I had girlfriends, I have kids all over the place.”

I said, “That’s not something to be proud of tbat’s something to be ashamed of. I asked him, " How many of those kids did you support?” And that shut him up and he stopped bragging.

It was interesting because I didn’t know if he was going to get mad and possibly violent or how he was going to react. But there was silence and in a few miles more we started talking again. That little interaction was satisfying as hell.

But I like giving people rides. People do stuff for me all the time and treat me fairly well and I remember how great it is to get a ride when you are used to taking the bus. So I give co-workers rides, I gave the neighbor lady a ride once and once when I first moved in, the twenty year old kid in the house next door asked for a ride and I said sure, why not?

People on here have asked why I don’t get some kind if job where I can help people in real life. I just kind of shrugged it off and said I didn’t know. But now I am thinking about it. I would like to help people. It would be a good way of giving back.

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I think you would be great at helping people. It feels really rewarding and would help you feel better about yourself too. So it is win win.

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Yeah, I could actually use what I’ve learned here to help me help people. Thanks.

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Some people like to be big fish in small ponds! I think you did a good job to put the roomie in his place! Your one of the good eggs @77nick77, you really are and it’s not bad giving people a hand!

Hang in there. I wouldn’t like sharing with others these days. In the past I have with friends and even that is hard and always ends badly. I’d rather strangers if I had too!

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Thanks rogueone, you’re not bad yourself.

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Sounds like a good idea :slight_smile:️ I’m trying to help somehow, I help at the clubhouse and everything and even cleaning jobs are helpful, :slight_smile:

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Attaboy @77nick77 Glad to hear some muscle behind righteousness in the world.

Pretty sure with or without a God overhead it still makes sense to just try and do it right.

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You could become a Uber driver and help people - being in their lives a short time you could dole out a bit of wisdom that leaves them thinking after the ride is over.

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