Today when I picked up meds at the Pharmacy for my Dad I felt like I was being judged by the cashier maybe I am reading too much into this but he being the cashier looked real weird at me like I had two heads you know the look of disgust or when you are judging someone anyone else know what I am talking about? I hate when people judge me if you don’t know me or even if you do what gives you the right to judge a person its so wrong on many levels. But a lot of people do judge others based on looks, how they act, and how they dress and for many other reasons but still it doesn’t make it right. I try to treat people fair and how I would like to be treated. Or I don’t treat people anyway at all I just ignore ones that ignore me all the time and roll my eyes when I am annoyed at certain people and walk away its not worth getting in a fight over when someone does me wrong. Just the way I feel. If you haven’t walked a mile in my shoes or know where I am coming from or what I have been through and have nothing nice to say about someone its best to not say anything at all. Who else agrees with what I have said and been threw the hell I been through and still go through? Surely I am not the only one
Most people are superficial some things are not within your control some things are some are not
that is so true thanks for replying to me.@NeuralPlay123
I am really heavy and, even if I wasn’t sz, I would still hate for people to see me. However, what I tell myself, know to be true in my head, yet still have trouble believing in my heart is that a person who would judge my worth because of my weight or any superficial factor simply isn’t worth my time.
By being judgmental of you and disparaging you in her head she loses the chance to get to know you. And thus she is the one who ultimately loses.
I am heavy too not by choice but by Habit boredom meds a number of factors play in to why I am heavy I haven’t always been still judging someone on their looks is so wrong when you don’t know the story behind why someone looks dresses or acts the way they do. I used to be extremely thin believe it or not in the past many years ago I should say and I was at one time extremely attractive had a nice build and shape now not so much something I need to work at my weight is the number one thing I would love to change but its hard when you’re on psych meds to exercise or have the energy to do so but I need to do something my health is declining now and I have so many other problems brought on by my weight like right now I am having pains in my right side and its hot and burning right now I went to my Dr. and he ordered tests which I had done today to check my Liver and how I am digesting food and I had a Ultrasound of my gallbladder I have so much going against me right now and no one understands unless their in the same boat I am in. I am worried about it but it is what it is I am not afraid of the outcome but am concerned about what is going on with my health right now I know if its my liver that’s being affected its the cause of my psych meds that I take. Yes people jump to conclusions about how I look and whatever else I am no psychic but can tell sometimes what people may or may not think of me by their expression when they see me. Don’t judge a book by its cover its what is in the heart and Soul of the person that matters most anyhow. Some advice take it or leave it be.
Very true. To be honest I view a person’s physicality as an obstacle in getting to know them more than anything.
Yeah, I hate that feeling. It’s weird but I get that feeling every time I contest a traffic ticket in court.
I used to get that from pharmacists when I lived in a podunk part of the states and I didn’t have to pay a lot for the meds. Their reaction made me feel like a scumbag thief.
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