And literally, I am angry.
Firstly, I am angry, that I have no influence in this world. I would love to stop wars and other bad things.
Secondly, my people, closest ones… rarely take my opinion seriously.
I want to explain it now. I am a person, who no one takes seriously. Hell, maybe because I am young. Maybe everyone feels like me now sometimes. Idk.
Also, even children don’t take me seriously! I cannot even command to them in a tough voice. I am too gentle most of the times, so people don’t take me seriously. I feel like the biggest nonsense ever.
People like to hug me, but not to take advice for me.
I hope it makes sense what I wrote here. I feel like a nonsense
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Hey there it’s the same with me.
I took myself too seriously and others gave a crap about it.
And children are always a challeng for me too.
My niece is so smart she plays tricks on me.
Tells me to go for job and makes fun of me that I take money from my parents and many more.
Then I told my self she is a kid and need to treat them as kids.
Then when I thought of my childhood days and concluded I was so innocent. Then when I checked my childhood photos I was a notorious kid.
The think I would like to remind you and me is importance is got by what you bring to the table.
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I feel you…
You described very well what I also experience.
The phrase “what you bring to the table” is very correct
It’s funny though… (I wonder) how it would be if I’ve been in politics or even higher position, as a president for example. People would laugh at my soft character! I would be laughed off.
I know it’s not bad to be gentle or soft, it’s in some way very good qualities, but there are times I want to be perceived as a serious person. You know, strong, brave and worthy to listen to. 
Now I feel like a caricature of serious person
By the way I believe it’s even in my genes. My mom is always the one I won’t listen
I feel the same but wont go into details because it is all political.
I am angry too but in a opposite situation. People take me seriously but put serious responsibility on me also.
I give you much respect for your situation in life.
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In my case they want for me to reach the stars (study and work), but don’t take seriously me as a persona. Don’t care what I say or think. Like… it doesn’t have a meaning
Biggest thanks for that respect! 
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You know people don’t respect me or take me seriously for many reasons.
- Decision I make. I am not man of my word
- Stubborn, I am not stubborn of my decision
- Conclude and let go of the topic but I am stubborn on wrong things.
- Forgetfulness and forgive, need to be more of this.
Sometimes I think I need to change my self entirely.
Then I think of one step at a time.
Overall no one values if they know if I have some condition as such.
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Maaaaate it’s so relatable… I also say as an example I will quit smoking, but I don’t. (It’s timy example but I guess people notices such things))
There are moments non stop when I believe this is me who need to change.
Being ill sometimes also plays a role here. Low motivation to work with my personality… although I really try. I am very forgiving. My BF once said “you’re simply too good. That’s why that neighbour child do not listen to you. You need to mean what you say”
And I thought… hell? Too good? Is this even possible?
I hope one day I will grow up. And I mean it. I am legal adult but my brains sometimes is like 13 y.o. Teenie
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I too think this way when others call me uncle I am like what 
while playing football the young people call me uncle 
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you’re still young…try not to think what others think…YOU know what you think , stick to your guns.
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I think you’re right. Most important is how I feel and think.
Strange though some days I think of changing my personality, while on other days I feel it’s better to embrace who am I deep inside
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Confidence comes with action. Inactivity causes over thinking and self consciousness. There needs to be a balance between the two. Staying busy or working out can help, just avoid sitting around thinking a lot. When you think too much you second guess yourself
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Indeed… when I am not busy I start overthinking the least important things in life. Like, you know, they say again schools and kindergartens will explode…
when I start realising possibility of war, I appreciate myself more. And others. And peace. And life overall,
It’s just so easy to forgot that we all are human beings, and every one is unique.
Sometimes I think about things which are meaningless, or not even noticeable to others.
@POET
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I have found people dismiss my advice quite a bit.
I’ll admit I have very little I can offer as advice but on certain subjects I can save you a lot of time and effort.
I made the mistake of telling people that you are rarely stopped in motion. So do something. That has come to bite me in the ass because now people are just doing things around me.
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Dont listen to the others
Demand that u r just as good as anyone else out there
Always try to believe in yourself
I hope u feel better soon 
Love 
katey xxx
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If it makes you feel any better, drake, one of the worlds most popular musical artists is being pretty much laughed into a musical hiatus right now.
I don’t feel important either though. I do feel grateful for what I have though and that’s enough for me.
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People don’t listen to anything I say. Oftentimes, if I start to speak, others start speaking over me and I never get heard. It’s very frustrating. But I know making a scene over it won’t do me any good at all.
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I have the same problem. With one brother i live with he rarely responds to me with more than one word. I know that’s just his way with people he doesn’t relate to but it takes a toll on a person after a while.
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an object in motion tends to stay in motion
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That’s what I told them and now I am paying for it haha
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lol true… if your brains always working and moving and over thinking when youre alone, when your with people its gonna do the same. When your body’s at work your mind is on vacation.