Been talking to this girl on facebook. She has 3 kids and she’s 32. Single mom. She goes to my college,but a different branch. She’s really beautiful. She looks like she might have some mental health issues…she doesn’t look like a “normie” maybe not SZ but she did post something about depression. I’ve been talking to her… I posted that my favorite animal was an owl when she posted an owl video and she said “It’s my favorite animal too!!!” I’m hesitant to get romantically involved (i thought about this last night) cuz it sounds like we’re in different stages in life…but I’d like to make her my friend. Even if just facebook friends and never meet. Idk just needed to share this wondering what your thoughts are on the matter?? Maybe we can support each other. Her kids are friggin adorable too.
People with mental illness shouldn’t be in relationships with other people who have mental illness. It’s like alcoholics and addicts, they shouldn’t be in relationships with each other. One of you will destroy the other eventually.
Speak for yourself. I’m more normal than the normies when I’'m on the meds.
thats a big age gap as well isn’t it
6 years but we go to the same college
Stress often provokes psychotic episodes! Her depression, kids, family drama, etc could end up being too much for you and cause you to have a bad episode even if you’re on meds.
I’m not saying I wanna get romantically involved. She has ZERO men commenting on her posts and photos. Only women comment on her posts and stuff. So I “feel” for her. Maybe I can be a good friend to her. Since it’s good to have some opposite sex conversing at times. I don’t think it’s healthy to only talk to women. or only talk to men. You should mix it up. maybe I’m wrong in thinking that. But when I was growing up I never talked to girls and it was bad for me. I just feel bad she probably feels lonely. She added me, messaged me first, and likes all my photos.
I think it’s great to have more friends! And later on, who knows? My brother is younger than you and his girlfriend is 37. They just work together, age be damned! And we all know Sooner is just jealous 
Lol good post made me laugh too.
That’s weak dude. You don’t wanna be someone else’s daddy. The kids aren’t yours they’d never respect you. Plus most if not all women look like they have mental health issues because most of them do. If she’s a single mom at 32 she’s most likely desperate looking for someone to help her.
My thoughts would be to avoid at all costs. Unless you want to pay the bills and raise someone else’s little rug rats
that feeling when you don’t look like a normie. ![]()
sometimes it’s cool to assume that other people are like you chew. but sometimes that same assumption can be a mistake. some people are quite comfortable with their social situation/status, regardless of how other people view it.
girls have cooties. that’s probably why. ![]()
just kidding… I don’t even know what cooties is. ![]()
I personally think that it’s a good idea to remain friends with this woman.
Who cares if both of you have a mental illness - as long as she is stable, then there is no harm.
Start off as friends and see if you guys are compatible with each other.
Then take it from there.
Good luck @chew
All her kids are girls btw.
Awwww how old are they?
Girls are gross. Not women. Just girls. Something about them I can’t stand, idk.
She most likely sticks with the women like most girls that have been in long term relationships before. They only stay in touch with their girlfriends. But I bet if you she’s got a dude or two stashed away for rainy days on the side who probably drives a pick up truck and drinks with the cops and firemen
Probably like 7, 4, and 3
That’s oddly specific…
That is so adorable! I think it’s awesome that you have a new friend!
Either that or he rides a motorcycle and has a small trailer in the woods. He treats her like ■■■■ but she always goes back because that’s all she knows