wow dude. this just got uncool. 
by the way chew, the wordplay/pun of the thread title is pretty epic. 
you should craft the titles of my poems. Iāll pay you in food stamp money. 
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Haha and you wonder why youāre single. Hint: itās not the meds. Itās your attitude towards women.
How do you know that Iām single?
I donāt have a negative attitude towards women. Actually Iām indifferent at the moment because my meds donāt allow me to feel pleasure or have any interest in the opposite sex. Iāve had quite a few successfull relationships in my day with women. Iām simply stating possibilities because I donāt want to see @chew get taken advantage of. Those scenarios were actually real life occurrences that I experienced because I was vulnerable and had more than one woman use me to get away from an abusive ex for whatever reason. No matter how you look at it, when youāre mentally ill the rules of dating are completely different
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But @Ninjastar you might be right. Maybe my attitude towards women has he come skewed because Iām on a lot of medication and I canāt date like I used to. Thatās very possible. I hope that my attitude improves because I love a womanās company
And that explains the oddly specific renditions of this womanā¦
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Haha yes flame. That and my love for fiction. I read a lot. But in the case of what I just wrote man that has actually happened to me.
Weāre all sensitive and vulnerable individuals because we have some form of MI. Dating can be very scary. Thereās a lot of competition and the gloves are literally off when it comes to relationships.
This post has strayed a long way from @chewās initial topic. @MeghillaGorilla1, please understand that your specific experience is just that. My mom was a single mother of two girls completing her education in her 30s, and her life was nothing like what you describe.
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Thatās fine. I didnāt mean to hijack the thread or sound derogatory in any way. Itās the holidays and Iām feeling grouchy. Maybe ninja star was right my attitude needs an adjustment. Bah humbug.
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Iām sorry youāre feeling so cruddy. Holidays can be tough.
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Thank you
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Well, it sounds like you feel pity for her.
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And thatās no Bueno
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I could have a negative attitude toward woman and im a woman. lol
"They started it"
Naaa, I guess ill keep turning the other cheek.
I just think theres not many that are my kinda woman so to say.
I think im heterosexual but someone else told me im bisexual in their opinion.
But heaps of men too have been horocious so its both sexes but probably more woman go figure.
Im not a feminist but sure a woman should not be paid less than a man just cause shes a woman .
I can love different types of extremism and find it brilliant yet hilarious but no im not a feminist.
Woman can be horrors but then again so can men but probably in different ways.
and the woman make the men do things not other way around mostly.
Like at danceā¦ not one of those men could govern me or father me and in the end they couldnt even give me a nice ******* danceā¦ āthatz with them yoā Jealous woman and men. lol
Sorry.
Its still lingering from yesterday.
Good that you have a friend.
I understand that you are advised to be careful.
There are lots of people who want to use someone and who are warnable of for many reasons but it could turn out to be something positive and good for you.
I had a internet friend i chated with daily for 3 years i think but then we met and it was awkward and we stopped writing pretty much after that. Now we have nada contact.
I think now he was stealing from me and planning something big and spying on me to better be able to do so.
Have you met her in person?
You might want her to be your girlfriend 
and maybe even have children with her but a bit soon if so as you want to study and have goals.
Good wishes to you guys whether you be friends or more. 
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I think the title of this thread should be the other way around. āThis girl feels for meā
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Two āsickiesā donāt make a āwellyā. There you go sooner dropping knowledge
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Easy tiger! Chews not like that. I do feel like a parent in this case and want to say āfind someone closer to your own ageā, but when I was 26 I went out with a woman who was 40.
It didnāt last though. She wanted to get married.
Why didnāt you marry her? Perhaps the stability of the relationship could have fended off your symptoms at the time?
I donāt think 6 years is much difference. You are mature with much life experience anyway.
I never wanted to get married, to anyone. Iām a confirmed bachelor. She eventually got married to someone else.