i went to meet this guy on thursday and it went well and I thought he was nice and all … i don’t think he liked me because he hasn’t texted me back since then… or is it too early to tell??? to be honest i wasn’t attracted to him … it shouldn’t matter but i feel pretty bad because maybe i mucked it up
Don’t let it hold u back, great that u are brave to do this . You might meet someone that’s right
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You really over analysed this whole scenario. Maybe you should just count it as one under your belt and next time you wont be so nervous. If you weren’t attracted to him then it should be no big deal. Roll with life and move on. I’m sure you were fine and did nothing wrong. Not being attracted to him and wanting things to proceed kind of boggles me. Any case that is my two cents.
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my colleague made me feel bad when i said i wasn’t attracted to him wasn’t a good enough reason 
Don’t worry about that ■■■■. Follow your heart.
You’re pretty cute, and you seem pleasant enough.You will find somebody. There’s probably plenty of guys that would like to go out with you and get to know you. Good luck.
hi ish if you weren’t attracted to him forget about it and your gaining practise for next time:)
It’s good that you weren’t attracted to him that makes it practice. I look at dating the way most people look at house hunting. You have to shop around a lot so you can learn what you like or don’t like. His curb appeal is nice, but he has a cracked foundation. I’ve met plenty of those.
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@anon80629714 like nick77 said, you are very pretty…(I’ve seen your picture) there ain’t no need to be nervous…“men are like trains…you can always catch the next one”…
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Lol. “Or women are like trains, there’s always another one coming along”.
go easy on yourself, i was hopeless at dating…so i am no expert…but you seem like a really nice person.
if it is meant to be , it will be…don’t over think it !!
take care
I’m definitely the last person to ever ask for relationship advice from. But you had a good time and you couldn’t ask for more than that. If it’s meant to happen it will and in it’s own sweet time.
It’s too early for you to be attracted to him, I think. You look very smart. Never mind, you will find some new people and meet the right one finally.
Thanks guys , I just remembered he asked me things like do you drink and are you vegetarian. I said yes I drink and I eat eggs but am vege and I don’t think he approved. we came from different religious backgrounds and I don’t think it would have worked anyway.